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Drug Step Hell

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onlyone · 16/02/2011 09:49

I need help.

My Ex and his soon to be new partner and step bitch to my DCs have just sunk to new lows. ( Apologies to all decent steps but this one shames all steps, women etc etc etc)

It has come to my attention that step is addicted to prescription drugs and indulges in the "odd Line" of cocaine. Those of you who ask for evidence - the pics speak for themselves!

Before any one screams at me, DCs, not being allowed out of my sight, contact done in my house and she no longer has contact. I have not said why just acting like the EX from hell!!

DCs are my number one priority and their safety and well being.

I now wish to proceed to make sure potential step has no contact with DCs, one of which is disabled. I have no wish to stop EXH having contact as generally is a good Dad and DCs love him to bits. I know this will make new family life hard for them but personally do not give a shit as 2 under 5s and one disabled take priority in my head over everything etc.

Anyone know what I need to do next to make sure they are protected.

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VioletV · 16/02/2011 11:16

I'm not really sure what to suggest here. I know this maybe an odd question to ask but was she doing drugs in front of the children? When I say drugs I mean coke. I wouldn't have my children around anyone doing drugs. I'm new to all this (I'm pg with 1st child) is there like a number of a support line you can contact so they can give you advice regarding what your rights are if any?

I would suggest social services but that maybe going over the top.

HTH

bristolcities · 21/02/2011 13:35

Does she do drugs in the presence of your children? Is she irrational and horrible to your children? Are your children distressed by her treatment towards them?

balia · 21/02/2011 15:37

Where on earth did you get pictures from?

Do you think if you told your ex he wouild ignore it/deny it, is that why you haven't told him?

Sorry, not being much help - what I would say is that if you have stopped unsupervised contact and not given him a reason, then that isn't very fair as it gives him no opportunity to put things right...and whilst there's clearly a back story here, suddenly revealing this as the problem, say, if you get taken to court, is going to look a bit odd, isn't it?

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