joining you soon

[shockedandconfused]

I will be leaving my (2nd) marriage very soon.
After telling my grown up daughter my intentions she informed me her DF (my EXH) has said I can lodge will him.
We had a very nasty split and I thought he hated me.
Must add we had no sons and now I have a Ds with H2. I know EXH would of liked a son but it never happened with me or his 2nd wife.
Just interested in peoples opinions, do you think he's being nice or maybe has another agenda.

I would say another agenda, and don't go there!

Would you even consider the offer?

Recipe for disaster, going from one unsatisfactory setup to another.
IMHO one of the best bits to being single is being independent, in charge of your own decisions and feeling pride in that. It's great for your self-esteem!
So my advice would be make your own arrangements and take pleasure in them being just what you want (or as near as you can get it!). Good luck.

Omg you cannot be seriously thinking about considering this. Lodging with someone you had a nasty split with and thought hated you? Don't you have a girlfriend or relative you can go to?

Just a quick update.

I am moving out at the end of Feb to stay with a friend

Have told H what I'm doing, so its just a case of sitting it out now. Can't go any earlier due to commitments and am moving hundreds of miles away.

Now for the shocker, I don't sleep well and spend most of my nights on pc. After recieving a text from a (well meaning) friend I have found H on a dating site and I feel nothing

Thought he could of least waited till Ds and I had actually gone

Before he started looking for another partner that is.

Glad you're not moving back to your exs!
You sound very together about your move.
HOw horrible for you to see that on the pc.
But at least you know you won't be plagued by him not accepting the end of the relationship.
He must be very insecure though to go on a dating sight before you've even left.
Is he scared to be single?