Firstly I apologise for sounding like a 15 year old .......
After a hellish divorce, then 2 years just stabilizing the kids, working etc I decided it was time to get back out there....
Met a guy on POF. We talked and texted for a few weeks until the Summer hols and my ex took dc away for a week.
We met in town on the Saturday night, I liked him immediately although he isnt a crowd pleaser and was a little abrasive at times, unusual on a first meeting?
We met at 5pm and I consequently had way too much too drink and he ended up coming home with me.... not the best move.
Anyway in a nutshell, we saw each other every day for the next week whilst the kids were away. Since then we have had various misunderstandings through text etc but he has always made contact again.
When there has been a period of a few weeks apart, he is always so pleased to see me, saying how he has missed me etc. He came off POF and came across as completely genuine. An old friend went to school with him and told me he had been a complete family man until the divorce. He has 2 grown up dc.
Things have been quite stable for the past 6 weeks. I invited him to my brother in laws birthday bash. I think as a bit of a test, thinking he would say no, but he said yes immediately. He met my dc( I know but I am new to this dating after divorce stuff).
Things were great after that but in the past couple of weeks I sensed him cooling off.
I didn't think he was the type of guy to agree to meet the dc if it was just a meaningless fling. I asked him in a text last night what his feelings were and he told me he doesn't see a long term future for us....... Was it just about sex... I am so confused as he seemed so into me and is not a fuck wit. Why keep making contact with me ...........
Sorry I know this is juvenile but I am so out of practice at this stuff.....
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