The art of pulling; help needed!

[poshsinglemum]

I am lucky to go out occasionally with my friends and we normally end up in a local disco.
I went on saturday night and there were lots of fit men but I had no idea how to approach them. One man was interested in me but he was leering in a drunken way.
I like to get a bit merry but tbh I have forgotten how to pull. I'm not after a one night stand but a snog would be nice. I guess it's hard to chat in a disco. I just feel that drunken snogging is so teenage but I need a bit of a fumble!

Oh dear; I've lost it. What to do. My friends assure me that I looked great but I'm too shy. I'm also a bit scared.

Smile at them and eye contact. Usually is enough. This is what I avoid doing

Ok; will try next time. I need to get over it!

Any luck over the weekend posh?

I pulled a random bloke while outside talking to a friend. I am sending you some positivity!!

at wellies

The best way to pull i think is to go out and really enjoy yourself, enjoy a good boogie and have a laugh with your friends - and don't worry about pulling. Then eye contact and a smile should do it.

Be careful what you wish for - there's a lot of plonkers out there - when you get back into it you'll soon get tired of them!

Totally agree Mellow, I didn't want the attention, and I politely declined his advances.