Hi, I'm new and think I may have posted my initial thread in the wrong section... I'll try again. My EP and I have had a private arrangement regarding child maintenance for 7 years and he has decided to reduce it significantly without telling me. He did however send me an email about 2 months ago saying he was reducing it because I wouldn't give him a breakdown of what I was spending it on. I ignored it because I thought it was utterly ridiculous that after all the years he would request such a thing. (he's given me the same amount for 7 years). He also said he was taking me to court for contact and parental responsibility. Again, I ignored it because I've never stopped him being involved in his sons life. What has changed is that I now have boundaries and don't get involved in his games and he has met someone new. I've now made a CSA claim but I'm scared that he will find other ways to get at me. Has anyone had similar experience and if so, how have you dealt with it? thanks