Could I get back with father of my child?
We had a brief fling together which resulted in the birth of a gorgeous little boy!
Gradually got a good friendship through pregnancy and birth going on and due to circumstances he offered for myself and my son to move in with him.
Things were good and we were growing closer but he was always buzy and leaving me with the baby. this got me down along with other things like not working and repetative days so I took all my stressful feeling out on him.
I got another place and me and my son moved in. His father came to visit alot and we contimued to be a couple. Again I didnt like it when he went away and slightly jealous he had a life and i was left with baby so i was always huffy.
Guess he got tired of that and said he doesnt want to be with me anymore!!
He is a great guy from good family, clearly loves his son and wen aroubd was happy to help me with him. He makes me laugh, cheers me up, gives great hugs. He is a hard worker and I know he did care bout me...I think. Not anymore tho!
Anyway our son is 9 months old and sees his dad every weekend...but I fell the last year and half have been life changing and I have given up alot. I wish I didnt take everything so serious and I had the ability to lighten up and accept things as they are! As now I fell I have ruined my chances at trying to build a relationship with my childs father all because I struggle to cope with things?
Anyone been in same situation? I told him I loved him and thats wen he started backing off! I moved things too fast coz he even said at one point he has feelings for me. He is a stubborn man and wont change his mind once it is made.
Could I have a 2nd chance??
1 hour ago - 4 days left to answer.
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I have asked him but stupidly i beged and pleaded...got angry!! I know that is not right and for past week I have not contacted him and want to continue not to...except arranements for euan I dont mention us.
I just feel so sad especially nite time wen baby is in bed x