single

[clumsy]

hey not been on here for ages, facebook took over sadly!! but have more time on my hands now known my husband for 21 years a couple for 10yrs and married for two, 10th sept he just upped and left declaring he doesnt love me anymore and never will!! please tell me it gets easier our daughters are 7 and 3 x

oh goodness it gets easier and to the point you actually can't beleive you were actually married to them and wonder how you ever could have been

Sorry that things aren't easy ATM but take one days at a time and greive for what could have been adn then move on with your life

Suprising ly you may find your dh doesn't move on and wants to come back and regrets what he ahs done at some point - it oftens happens - but don't wait for that get on with rebuilding your own life

very new to this, for the second time, what does dh stand for,lol each day is getting that little bit easier but i hate saturdays he takes the girls at 3 and i have them back tomo at 7 its awful x

Am new to this too! think dh stands for darling husband/dear husband..
weekends are tricky for single mums i always find,all your married friends tend to be with their hubbies,and if you havent got the kids,could feel worse-but if you plan stuff to do for the weekend,and keep busy,time can fly by..oh and if you don't go out in the evening get a good dvd!

clumsy, sorry for your situation, I've been on my own now for 16months (different situation, but still difficult) and life does get better.My ex dh hasn't had the children overnight once yet and I long for some me time, so I would enjoy your time to be you, even if it is just catching up on things at home or sitting with a glass of wine and a dvd.
Iam still finding I have days when life is just too hard,and I think about what might have been, (we were married for 17 yrs).But I also find I enjoy being able to do what I want and when I want and the children know where they are, not stuck in the middle of two different sets of rules. take care.

thanx everyone, nearly 3 weeks in, the anger has kicked in now so i amnot speaking to him for fear of saying something i dont mean, girls are doing ok they still have they're moment more so the eldest but things are smoothing out at home, hardest thing is i stil have to see him7 days a week because of the hours i work he has to bring them home to bed here, till i get home from eork, driving me crazy!! but i am hoping to sort it out real soon so that i see as little of him as possible xx