This sucks

[MrsMorgan]

Wanting someone you can't have, or actually, who doesn't want you, sucks.

It does MrsMorgan. Unrequited love :(

Thank's for the reply Supercherry.

This morning I just feel really stupid and want to forget he ever existed.

What happened, if you don't mind me asking?

I'm sure you have nothing to feel stupid about.

Started a 'no strings' thing with someone that I shouldn't have. I knew from the start that it was never going to be no strings from my side, but did it anyway.

Whilst slightly drunk last night, I txt 'I miss you' to him. He seemed to think it was funny at first but then replied 'u never had me to miss'.

And he is right, I never did. I feel stupid for thinking it would ever be anything more than it was.

Cheeky, arrogant swine! What a horrible thing to say. Talk about rubbing salt into the wound.

Right, it doesn't sound like he's too nice then really so start thinking along the lines of 'he wasn't relationship material anyway' and 'good for a shag only'.

Turn the tables a bit.

Oh yeh he is a shit but then i'm not especially nice, because I knew he had a gf for one thing, so I suppose I deserve this now.

I don't think it is the fact that he doesn't want me that hurts. It is that non of it meant anything ever to him, not even a tiny bit.
So when he said I was beautiful, he was lying. When he said that I was amazing, he was lying, and when he said I made him smile, he was lying.

I feel stupid for thinking he ever would have been interestd in anything more than it was. I mean he is young, single and has the world at his feet. I am older, have 3 kids and a whole lot of nothingness.

Well Mrsmorgan, admittedly, you have been silly but karma has kind of bitten you on the ass so no point beating yourself up anymore really is there?

He is not nice, sounds like he has no regard for your feelings or his girlfriend's.

Lucky escape.

Next time please say you're going to avoid attached blokes, moral issues aside, there obviously going to be nobs if they're willing to cheat on their partners aren't they?

You need to work on your self esteem, which is easier said than done I know.

they're not there

Oh don't worry, I will be not be going down that route again. Not even sure why I did, because it isn't the first time that an attached bloke has tried his luck, and I have always said no thank's. Not sure what made this different.

I think I do have self esteem issues. Not sure how you sort that out though lol.

Think I will just steer clear of men in general now.

Thank you for listening and relying Supercherry

That's OK MrsMorgan :) I think staying away from the male species is the right way to go about helping one's self esteem. Think we just pick the bad 'uns when we are feeling low.

You need to start doing things for you. Take up a class, make new friends, that sort of thing. That's what I'm told anyway!

I'm trying to do the same thing too really, well, except for having joined a dating website. But, I'm just seeing it as meeting new people and a bit of a confidence boost. I'm not taking it too seriously and I'm not looking for the one.

Just remember, a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle.