I have a crush on my landlord

[citronella]

He has been my landlord for about 2 years. All I know about him is

• his name
• that he is divorced with grown up children
• he works very hard
• he has an easy laugh

I think the last point is why I like him. However I

• have been single for 2 years with 2 small children and might be making things up in my mind

WWYD?

I'll be back to check a bit later...

mmmmmm very hard to know if people are just being nice and friendly or whether they like YOU if you haven't been with them in a bigger group. He may be lovely to you when you and he are standing in a hall way, but it would be useful to be able to socialise with him in a group and see if he pays you attention... is there any way to engineer this?

I would advise against going anywhere with this, tbh - he's in a position of power over you and if anything went wrong at ANY stage you could find yourself homeless.

Be really careful.

sorry and all but i'm with flightattendant on this - have known and heard of dodgy goings on with landlords and you never know what he might be thinking. whatever happened tho it could put you in a very difficult position.

Sorry about the long delay responding. DC came home and monopolised the computer.

I agree with both of you that's the thing.

He is just quite friendly but we only ever talk as one of us is arriving or leaving. He has agreed though to feed my cat while we are on holiday.
My friend reckons he likes me but my point is that if he did he would have made some kind of sign in 2 years.
Flight, that is exactly what is holding me back from making a fool of myself!

Thing is james, I have no idea what he's thinking if anything at all.

Maybe this is just a symptom of the fact that I am starting to need a bit of lurve in my life again.

he may well just be a normal fella and not a bit weird - after all i'm divorced with kids and harmless enough - the thing is, as fer as etiquette goes, i'd see it as being like having a relationship with your boss - and its just so wrong.