Ex is meeting his EX today - after 2 weeks

[SingleMumAndProud]

Me and DH split 2 weeks ago. He is meeting up with his ex girlfriend today. And he lied to me about it.

He told me last night she had contacted him on FB but he decided she was just being nosey and finding out why we had split up. Her facebook status is saying she can't wait to see him today.

I know its up to him now, but I can't help feeling a bit upset. I mean surely he could wait more than 2 weeks!!! And he was telling me last night (when drunk) that he has been really horny. She will sleep with anybody.

"he was telling me last night (when drunk) that he has been really horny. She will sleep with anybody."

He really shouldn't be telling you that he's horny, if you've split, that's not going to help anyone or anything. And if he speaks about her like that, he's no great loss.

It's hard, the splitting, and of course you're upset. But I'm fairly sure he's only telling you all of this to make you jealous - why would he go into all this detail otherwise?

He wasn't talking about her when he was talking about being horny. He was being a dick and thinking that would make ME want to have sex with him .

And the "she will sleep with anybody" wasn't him, that was me saying that! (sorry, I know i am being harsh/stupid)

Oh, I see, he lied and said that she was just being nosy, but actually her FB status suggests that they're meeting up and probably going to shag.

Apologies for misunderstanding earlier.

You are allowed to be miserable. And to throw (unbreakable) things at the wall (not pets). Just don't shag the wanker!

Scream, shout, cry.
But remember he's your ex and don't consider going back to the loser for a second.
Her track record shows just the reason they're meeting up. They are as bad as each other so as painful as it is, leave 'em to it.
You will look back in a while and wonder why you wasted tears on him, trust me.

Thing is, I was absolutly fine about the break up until now. I have had a good few crying sessions but I soon remember it's all for the best and then look on the bright side. But this has really upset me. I am in tears over it now.

Thing is, an ex of mine got in touch a few days ago and wanted to come and see me to see if I was OK (and I know he wants to do more than just that!) but I avoided it because I knew DH would be really upset. (not sure if I should point this out to him or keep quiet?).
It might be innocent but I know if she offered him sex, he would probably take it.

Arrgghh, I need to get this out of my head but I can't! I have people coming round at 10 and I have been so positive up until now and i think everything has just hit me!!

If you want to shag your ex, and he's keen, why not? As long as you're not leading hi on - just tell him you want a sympathy shag, nowt else!
And well done for coping so well.

Thats not what I am upset about AW? Its that he is probably going to shag is Ex today.