2-year old DD. Ex abusive to me (not seriously physically). Court order: I'm residential parent, he has access. Handover times normally specified, but he has had her for a week's holiday (I've seen her during that time), and we're meant to agree handover arrangements. He's not technically in breach yet.
He said this morning we'd discuss the handover. He isn't answering any of the five phone numbers I have for him, or the texts I've sent.
When he did this at Christmas, I got a police escort to reclaim DD. I needed her back by a certain time because we were due to fly to my parents' home, and my mother insisted that I get a police officer to come with me. Ex ranted and raved at the policewoman, who said she could see why I wanted an escort, and made a note for the file. I'm fairly sure the police would be helpful, but don't want to waste their time.
It feels more urgent because DD has recently become very reluctant to see her father. She was always excited before now, and I encouraged that, but recently she cries and says she doesn't need daddy. It's not that she's clingy to me - she also says she'd prefer to go to nursery. I don't think he's being physically abusive to her, but he is very aggressive and domineering.
WWYD?