I spend 1 week a month in London - where should I say and socialise (solo, I don't know anyone) to have friendly folk around me

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I live will be spending 1 week a month in London from Sept, can stay anywhere central. Looking for somewhere with a bar/gym/social space I might find people to have a chat to? I don't really know anyone in London and would like to make some sort of social life if possible - this will be for the next 5 years at least, prob longer.
The hotel is all paid for and I can chose within reason, I am not a fancy person but do like nice food and would appreciate not spending all my time alone outside of meetings.
Advice very much appreciated - thank you!

Do you have colleagues working the same pattern?

Most hotels cater for tourists, so it would be very transient at best

What age/ sex are you? What interests? Are you a clubbing person, or someone who does a lot of sport eg?

Have you thought about joining a club? They usually have accommodation at cheaper rates for members, and are obviously very social.

I’ve heard good things about the University Women’s Club.

Great questions -thank you

@BatshitIsTheOnlyExplanation yes I want to avoid touristy places if possible, thanks.
I have my own businesses and we are expanding into London market so I am holding consultations with new clients - no colleagues in London unfortuantely.

@Bacha1910 I am 52, I like theatre, cinema, nice food, a good chat, meeting people and having a laugh more than anything else.

@Aaloyisha I haven't but will read about this - thank you

Where do you need to get to in central London each day? I would look at a nice residential area close to there such as Marylebone, Angel, Nottinghill, Hampstead etc.

I’ve heard good things about the University Women’s Club too.

I think for that length of time, an Airbnb in a residential area would be better than a hotel. Somewhere you can have a bit of continuity in your own bedroom and then get to know people in the area. They might let you keep some things in a cupboard, so you don't feel you are living out of a suitcase.

Maybe find an activity that only happens monthly, so you aren't missing out in the weeks you aren't there - things like an art class or games night might be monthly. Join a gym that has branches in London and your home town. I have just started padel and you can sign up to open games. I think that would be good for people looking to socialise.

Have you thought about a Monday-Fri let room rather than a hotel ? Is that a possibility? Monday to Friday

I've just looked at the University Club and it looks great! You could go to events held there, work there and live there for one week a month.

There's also Mason and fifth which is v nice but pricey

Get a Soho House membership and stay there.

If sporty you could join a gym like david lloyd. London probably has swanky options!
But david lloyd you could split time at home and in a guest club if you join the more expensive one.

thanks, great ideas here! I am investigating.
I could get a rental but I think I'd be very isolated. I rurally normally and I have a big family that are always around, my day to day work is very sociable too. I think I'll be lonely with no chit chat 😂

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I have stayed at Ark Canary Wharf. Mini apartments, fab views, pool, gym, laundry room etc very sleek. There's also a co-working space. Only downside is no air con in the room.

My cousin used to be a member of the Sloane Club https://www.thesloaneclub.com/
i met him for lunch there a few times. It was very nice and in a great location