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Any views on QE2 maternity unit?

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orlando35 · 01/07/2010 23:21

I am trying to decide where and how to give birth and am finding it quite daunting Has anyone any experience of QE2 maternity unit or used any birthing centres in the area? also what is the support like for home births?

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1TiredBunny · 12/07/2010 22:25

I just wrote you out a huge long reply to your post, but the website temporarily failed and i lost it all! Grrr!

The long and the short of it....23 weeks pregnant and went to QE2 with severe abdomial pains just over a week ago. Was taken to delivery suite. Horrific experience. Staff were rude, lazy, cold-hearted and unhelpful. Came away feeling even worse. Went and viewed Princess Alexandra at Harlow yesterday and was blown away by the differrence!

Currently in the process of chaning over to them.

This is just my experience and my opinion obviously, but I would never want to go back.

mangomilkshake · 14/07/2010 09:24

I was booked at QE2 and changed to Harlow at 32 weeks...as far as the ante-natal care was concerned it was ok, as I am under consultant care I had to go to the peartree centre every month for blood tests and consultant appointments - the midwives in the peartree centre are all fine so no complaints there, appointments tended not to run on time though but this is probably reflective of all hospitals. At around 30 weeks I had some concerns with excess vaginal discharge so called up the labour ward to speak to a midwife. The midwife I spoke to was totally uninterested and unsympathetic and promptly decided that I had thrush and told me to go to the chemist to get canesten - she was not reassuring or comforting to me in any way and I felt like it was a complete waste of time speaking to her and she did make me feel like I was wasting her time. Not the best experience, could be just that particular midwife though, and perhaps not reflective of all of them at QE2, but this did seriously put me off going there to deliver.

So I have changed to Harlow and I have to say that all my experiences with Harlow so far have been very positive and the tour at Harlow also put my mind at rest that I had made the right decision to change.

Its probably worth checking out both by booking a tour, you will get the feeling about where you are going to be most comfortable...

Deptfordwife · 15/07/2010 14:36

I had my first baby at QE2. Am now pregnant with second baby, and I am going elsewhere for this one because my experience of QE2 was bad.

BUT I do wonder if people who have had bad experiences are more likely to post than people who have had positive ones? I know I am more inclined to respond to discussions when I am still cross about something (and, 18 months on, I am still cross about how I was treated at the QE2). So maybe bear this in mind when reading any negative responses, especially including mine which is about to get very negative!

I also think my situation was made worse because I had an emergency C-Section. If you have a straightforward birth there then in the experience of my friends, it's fine.

When I spoke to my GP about it, she said the QE2 maternity service is good, normally, but they do seem to suffer more than the others from understaffing.

I think this was the problem when I was there as they were bringing in staff from Stevenage to cope.

My experience was: during labour, the midwives did not handover properly when their shifts changed and so my care plan that the Obs.Drs had decided upon was delayed, resulting in unnecessarily extending my labour before I went on to an emergency C-Section.

After the birth, no one had time to teach me how to breast feed until a few days after the birth and only after I had started to complain loudly. Yet they wouldn't discharge me until I had learned how to breast feed.

I continuously asked for help, and would be told, "someone will be with you in a minute", but they wouldn't come for hours, if at all.

I had to stagger around the ward (not being able to walk upright after the operation), begging for someone to help me learn how to breastfeed.

They also didn't have enough time to write up my drugs for discharge which again resulted in a longer stay than necessary. It seemed so inefficient to be kept in hospital, taking up a bed, because they didn't have time to give me the care required to discharge me.

A student nurse put my newborn baby in bed with me when I was asleep, a dangerous thing to do to a baby when the adult in the bed has recently taken a lot of medication and is suffering from exhaustion.

When I started to complain about my care, I was asked if I would like to be referred to the mental health team. But all I wanted was to be shown how to breastfeed, to have my drugs written up on time and not to have my baby put in bed with me when I was asleep.

I know this is sounding really negative, so please try and get some more balanced views from other people if possible!

Sorry, have no experience of birthing centre or support for home births!

DoulaKate · 10/08/2010 18:45

Hi Orlando.
They are really good at supporting home births from QE2 as well.

smanth · 30/10/2010 15:05

NOT GOOD EXPERIENCES AT THE QE2 THEN HAD MY LAST TWO AT HARLOW WHICH WASNT TOO BAD BUT NOT GREAT - STILL LEFT TO GET ON WITH IT AND NOT OFFERED PAIN RELIEF - EPIDURAL YOU HAVE TO BEG FOR IF YOU GET IT AT ALL!!!

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