I am a year 13 student at Esher college, but I attended SHS for 9 years from the age of 7-16.
From personal experience I can tell you there are some amazing, inspiring teachers and staff, and there are some alright ones.
I was the first year to have j-lo as a head teacher and although she was a little...eccentric shall we call it, she was a lovely woman who put her heart and soul in the place. She made an effort to learn everyone's names and took a personal interest. She also had a strong ethos and moto that was drummed into us from the start, "respect and service" and "may love always lead us". This gave us something that, as a pupil, i felt united the students.
Halfway through my first GCSE year Ann Haydon arrived, and as an example of the new heads priorities, she once decided that instead of fixing the boiler in the science block (which meant we froze for the entire winter) she urgently decided the lawn by the side of the tennis courts needed re-doing. It snowed over the next month and as a result was ruined!
She began by saying she had a keen interest in sports. Well, to be quite frank that was rubbish. She has no actual knowledge of what is happening week by week sporting events wise, she also has not introduced any new things. Oh apart from the tiny and underused 6th form gym, but thats it.
She has also completely changed the schools focus. The moto now reads "the best in everyone" and now has a 'gifted and talented' program. This really only applies to someone who is part of a british team in sports, or is a reknowned musician.
There anti-bullying policy is inaffective, but there pastoral care was second to none when j-lo was around. On average I was told that 2 children will lose a parent every year at surbiton. They really helped me through. I do however think this took a bit of a dip when the two past deputy heads and j-lo left within 2 years.
On the whole I came out of the experience with excellent GCSE results, but I do think that I have benefitted more from leaving surbiton to go to esher college as I have myself learned to be less self-absorbed, stuck up and a more independent learner. Of course again a generalisation not all surbiton girls are that bad, but it is amazing how much environment and the people around you can mould you as a person. Leaving surbiton was right for me, but I would not have changed my years there. Despite some setbacks I loved it. I do have, hopefully lifelong, friends and some wonderful memories. I look back with fondness, no regret. And I feel that SHS gave me not only an outstanding education, but a confidence and strive to achieve my potential. I just feel leaving independent schooling has given a wider perspective that currently none of my friends that stayed on have.
I would reccommend this school because I had some of my best times there, but SHS 6th form is a waste of time and money. The amount of students leaving after year 11 is increasing every year, and Miss Haydon seems to be clutching at straws to keep people on. I was told several times in my last year I would fail if I left, not very encouraging or nice to hear, and completely untrue. If you are not willing to work at your a-levels on your own accord, you won't want to work at uni so whats the point? A college teaches you to work for yourself. Surbiton 6th form does not.
I hope my rambling may help in some way.
Former SHS student