I read this thread with a smile of recognition!
Yes, that lady in Indish is so unpleasant to trade with (grumpy, suspcious looks and gruff manner) I never go in there now. This is a pity for her turnover as I often buy 'design-led' gifts (all right, useless tat, as someone above put it) for friends' birthdays. I've been driven to wonder in the past why she bothers to run a shop, she so obviously doesn't enjoy it.
The lady in the photography shop opposite Monkey Nuts - yep, I've had a similar experience with her. After one particularly irritating encounter a year or two ago, after they'd just got the auto-processing machines and I asked her how to use them I started taking my photos to a shop near my office in town instead.
I love the greengrocer in the shop by the fishmongers. I'm a bit biased in favour of greengrocers as my DH was one for 20 years, but Crouch End Greengrocer Man is great.
I also find the butchers in the shop at the other side of the top of Middle Lane from Monkey Nuts very nice (non-patronising, important for an ex-vegetarian like me who sometimes needs some help with what to choose).
And not forgetting Wood Green:
*a big shout out for the (I think Cypriot) family who run the convenience store to the left of Morrisons mall entrance - open all hours, with a really good stock of basic fruit and veg etc and, considering the trying nature of some of their late-night clientele, extremely patient and pleasant.
*the family (I think also Cypriot) who run the drycleaners/alterations shop opposite the bus station on Green Lanes, a few doors up from the Wood Green tube station exit
*the staff at Wood Green tube station (who I find very pleasant and helpful) - I think it must be all their high-volume classical music broadcasts putting them in a good mood!
*and the guys that run the new inde bookshop the Big Green Bookshop, who simply cannot try hard enough to help!
What about further down Green Lanes in the ladder? Any views anyone?
Mrs Baldwin