I've been married to my wife for 1 year, together 7 years, in this time her brother who hasn't been in her life and is a cocaine addict and admits he doesn't want help, he's caused bother with his full family, he's been in jail for Hitting 3 recent girlfriends, he robbed his own father and put him in debt, recently he's been bad mouthing me to my wife behind my back and when I've said I won't be talking to him again my wife has said I can't be in the house then whenever her brother is there as it will cause an atmosphere, recently it all got too uch for me and after he sent me an abusive text I cracked and stupidly went to the door of my house where he is now living with my wife and step children to challenge him to come face to face, but he could only stand at a window shouting out at me alerting all the neighbours, now it is me that's suffering as my wife has chosen her brother over our marriage. Am I in the wrong for thinking I've been hard done by, should our marriage come before her drug addict brother??