To young

[kelzxt]

Hi all, iv been single for around 7 years last year I met a guy my age and I fell for him, we had a few problems as I felt unwanted by him, he said he cared for me but is unable to love after he lost his mum and brother, I understand that but he was adamant that he couldn't love, he would come and go as he please and after 9 months on off I finished with him..
I'm still very hurt as I genuinely loved him. Just recently I met a guy through a friend and he's lovely but my problem is he's 28 and I'm 38. He's very grown up but I don't feel right.
My oldest daughters nearly 22 so I feel he's more her age.
Am I being silly what do u all think
Thanks. X

Of course not. You're both adults. If there's a connection then give it a go. Attraction isn't based on someone's age! Age doesn't have to matter if you like someone. Enjoy getting to know him!

What about him being closer to my daughters age x

There's no rule, OP. Who you see and feel attracted to is entirely your own business. It wouldn't worry me.

Any other opinions x

I have a dear friend whose just turned 38 and her husband of two years is 26. I thought she was mad at the time but he acts her age and she his, so it all works out!

My problem is my oldest daughters 21 x

Sounds like you think it's a problem, which is really the only opinion which matters