Iv been married for 10 years. We've have two kids. One who has severe special needs.My husband has suffered from mental health and alcoholism. Last year the abuse and mental torture towards me got so bad that I finally had the courage to tell him to leave.. He wasn't happy. Told me my marriage failed because I was a hoe and a slut and that I wouldn't be able to live without him. I should be grateful for him because I would never amount to anything .I told him to leave and concentrate on himself while I concentrate on myself and the kids. Today iv received divorce papers. I'm not sure what to do. All this is very scary for me.google is a mine field .If anyone knows of some good family law solicitors please could you let me know.