Hi,
Apologies in advance for the length of this post! There's quite a lot going through my mind at the moment and I'd be grateful for any advice that forum readers can give me.
I am working in Cambridge while my partner and children live in Europe but am considering moving the family to join me later this year. My DS (6 years old) has a diagnosis of HFA and currently receives state-funded specialist interventions 4 times per week (45 minutes each session). He is in a mainstream classroom of 18 children and is doing well - his teacher says that, other than some difficulty with socialisation, he learns well and does not have disruptive behaviours.
From my own research, it looks like state schools in Cambridge can have large class sizes - up to 30 (sometimes even 32) children - and so I looked at options for private schools where class sizes, as I understand, are considerably smaller. We've been in touch with most of the private schools in Cambridge but unfortunately the response has not been great - they have invited him for assessments and, after a couple of hours, find it too hard to engage him and so reject him. My own take on this is that a couple of hours isn't nearly enough for him to feel at ease and perform in a new place - but it would be difficult to challenge their decision without coming across as a fussy parent.
I have also been in touch with my Cambridge GP about treatment options for HFA on the NHS. He has very kindly made us a referral to CAMHS but their response was negative and they suggested we do a CAF through DS's eventual Cambridge school. Community Paediatrics also made us the same suggestion - they said theirs was a purely diagnostic service and, given he already has a diagnosis, there was nothing else they could do for him. I've looked at the council's website for info on the CAF but the whole thing is still a bit of a mystery to me and I cannot figure out what treatments they can and would actually offer.
So my questions to the forum are:
(1) What do other children with HFA do for schooling? State or private? I've heard that Cambridge has quite a high proportion of kids on the autistic spectrum - surely a good number of them must be attending mainstream schools?
(2) To parents of HFA kids in state schools - what sort of support have your kids had in school? Do the large class sizes pose a problem or is this adequately compensated for by extra support?
(3) Regarding the CAF - how long does it take to get support down this route? What does it involve and what treatments/support can I reasonably expect from this process?
My fear is that my DS moves to Cambridge only to be left with no support from either the school or the medical system. Right now he is well looked after where he is, and I feel it would be wrong to move him if there is a risk of jeopardising his well-being.
Many thanks for any advice/info/personal experience you can offer.