Wow, you guys are great!! this is all so helpful.
First, yes, DD is going into Yr7 in the autumn.
It looks like we can afford housing in city. The main issue seems to be that all the sizable rentals appear to be geared toward students and sharers, rather than a single family rental.... We know we won't get the size of an American home, but we still need some space with 3 kids...... We could probably get a bigger place in Great Shelford, but at this point, I'm holding out for in city. I know we have to, but I'm really not looking forward to renting. Ugh. I haven't rented in 20 years.... I can't bear not being able to paint the walls, etc....
Really nice to hear good things about Chesterton. It was actually one I was looking at, especially since Parkside will be full, St. Bedes probably too, and while the kids are technically Catholic, we don't go to church enough to get an endorsement anyway. I will ring Monday and find out if there are any Chesterton places left. Then there is Netherhall. Good south city location but looks huge! I'll follow up.
I've been reading the Ofsteds of the in city state secondaries. Yikes. Why are they almost all "Requires Improvement?" Except the ones that are always oversubscribed. Geez. What's up with that? How do you feel about signing up for a school that is officially marked as struggling? Very disconcerting.
It's all so different from how they do state school placement where I live in the US. Basically, each residential address is assigned to a school. Period. It doesn't matter when you move there, you still get a spot in that school. Even mid-year arrivals. And exceptions are very rare. If you want a certain school, then you get a house in that area.
Anyway, you guys make me feel like maybe I can actually pull this off. I love that you confirm my thoughts that Cambridge city would be a great place for the kids to get around on their own. It's ironic that American' culture values independence over almost everything else. However, outside of some of the very big cities (NYC, Boston, etc), we are much more set up for driving everywhere than public transport, and this results in parents becoming taxi drivers for their kids activities.... In the end, the kids don't get the very independence that is so highly valued in American culture. (until they get kicked out of the house after graduation at 18, which is actually not unusual).
I've contacted King's Ely as well. I'm really hoping to hit all the schools of interest in the 10 days we are visiting.
Thanks again.
Red