Hi 1crazylittledaisy,
No problem at all and I’m delighted to be able to answer your questions!
Well first off, a big pat on the back to you for getting out and signing-up to those 5ks! It sounds like you are doing fabulously with your motivation. I’ve given up refined sugars as a lent challenge and motivation and willpower the hardest things to muster at the end of a long day I find!
We often get feedback from our clients, that they find it really difficult to stay upbeat and to keep making healthy choices when friends or family don’t! This is a direct test on our willpower, but once you’ve made the choice in your own head, you will begin to see the benefits of a healthy lifestyle and stop craving sugary snacks or to fall into a sedentary lifestyle.
I think what may be contributing to the different approaches of you and your boyfriend is the different approach that men and women have to weight loss and fitness. Women are often focused on goals like losing baby weight, a social activity or improving long-term positive wellbeing and health. Men are often motivated more strongly by health reasons. They might have a health scare or be advised by a doctor to take lose weight, but until that moment, it can be difficult to kick-start the healthy approaches to weight loss and diet.
Cook yourselves happy
So you’ve grabbed an hour to cook a meal? Why not do it together! Spend time getting to know what new flavours you could try and most importantly, have fun! You might well be stuck in a food rut so look at cookbooks, recipes shows or go online! Cook a double the portion and freeze the leftovers for those evenings that both of you are really tired. Some meals like chilli con carne and curries taste better the next day as flavours infuse!
Stock up on the staples
Frozen fruit and vegetables are so handy when you’re pressed for time or are feeling too tired to make a creative meal. Just pop them on the hob to steam or boil and they will count as one of your five fruit and vegetables portions a day. Another low calorie, quick meal is to prepare a tasty salad. We advise buying rocket or mixed lettuce, cucumber, pomegranate, tomatoes, tuna, chickpeas or lentils and get enjoy putting combinations together. These are the go-to snacks to fall back on...not sugary sweet options!
Make exercise fun
One of our clients goes on ‘date walks’ with her husband and one of the girls in the office went to a rock climbing class with her boyfriend recently. They had great fun and burned calories too! Think of fitness as quality time for both of you to spend together.
Make a routine
Arrange a time to eat together every day if possible. You say that you cook lovely, healthy meals for your daughter, so definitely stick to the same meals as her. If temptation strikes, have healthy snacks to hand or distract yourselves (crudités, hummus, carrot sticks) or in the evenings, go for a walk or sign-up to a new class! Distraction is key when it comes to battling cravings.
Feel the burn
Cost is an issue with some gym subscriptions, but you could look at discount offers for the two of you to join or you could even a bootcamp class? If you are both in the same routine, it will be so much easier!
I hope those tips help!
Read some articles on our Diet tips page for more advice:
[http://www.janeplan.com/diet-tips/excercise-in-groups.php]
[http://www.janeplan.com/diet-tips/too-busy-to-fit-exercise-in-your-diet-plan.php]
[http://www.janeplan.com/diet-tips/find-a-diet-buddy.php]