I didn't know whether to post here or on the Somerset board (I may try both). My dc is in Y5 and I know I have a while until I have to fill in the school application forms for next year but I'm tying myself in knots and feeling really anxious. I don't know if I'm over thinking it too much.
I live in South Bristol, literally half a mile (if that!) from the North Somerset boarder. Researching schools so far, I believe we would have a fair chance of getting a secondary school place at Chew Valley, a very slim chance of Backwell, a very slim chance of Ashton Park and a very good chance of Bedminster Down.
A lot of our current primary school friends will go to Bedminster Down. However, although it has a swanky new building is probably improving in results, I don't feel its right for my dc.
Chew Valley is an outstanding school and I really like its ethos and vibe, ditto Backwell. However, the Chew Valley building itself is not new and look run down in places.
I also really like Ashton Park although it's results aren't amazing I feel its likely to improve and I loved the feel of it, the grounds and the building.
I keep listening to people who love to give me their opinions on whats best in a school. Some people believe it's almost criminal not to send your child to the local school within walking distance - stating that they must be able to call on their friends and have total independence. Only Bedminster Down would be within walking distance for us, the others would be school buses.
I guess I'm worried about a few things. If I chose the schools I like a short bus ride away, am I condemning my dc to never being able to hang out with their mates without it being organised etc? Would it be awful for my dc to go to a school where many of their friends won't be going? Am I being swayed by a swanky plush building? I literally feel like I'm going round in circles and going ever so slightly mad. I'm terrified of getting it wrong. People love to tell you horror stories.
Sorry to bang on. Does anyone have any experience of these schools (living in Bristol)? What are they like really and what were your experiences? How did you choose a school? (even though I know it's not a proper choice as catchment is tough and there's not an abundance of great schools).
I guess I just want to mull it over with others.