Hi Herts posse,
I can't stand living in SE London any more ( am from Up North and have a serious hankering to look out at hills, space and the calmer attitude that goes with them). Alas DH's job is welded to London and always will be. So we are looking for good compromise options. We had been looking at Kent but the hothousing that goes on around grammars has put us off and the Eurostar is ££££££ for commuting (need to be at KX).
The thing is, I haven't got a clue where to start looking, can you advise me? We love the outdoors but used to live in Brighton so quite like a more inclusive, tolerant community - DH emigrated to this country and I am bi - so we wouldnt feel comfortable with some of the UKIP conservatism which goes on in some rural areas.
We have one DS who is currently primary age and good state schools ( primary and secondary) are really important to us and as DS is an only, being in or able to get easily in to a town where there is a lot to do would be good as I don't want him to be lonely just because I dream of waking up to hills!
I quite like St Albans but it is ££££. Keep seeing Hitchin mentioned a lot too - any other suggestions folks?