Hello,
I am scheduled for a C-section at ERI next week (will be 39+ weeks) but am feeling incredibly disappointed with total lack of information and slightly blase attitude of care providers. This is my first baby and my pregnancy has been low-risk, but due to baby being breech and being dissuaded from trying vaginal breech birth, I am trying to be positive about the ELCS and prepare as best as I can. (There is a brilliant book called "Caesarean Birth" by Leigh East which has really helped me get into a positive mindset).
However... I haven't had a midwife appt since 36 weeks (just scans), and also haven't been given any leaflets or a dedicated appt to discuss what a C-section specifically at ERI will involve (e.g. their protocols for preparation, the risks, advice on recovery, visiting hours on the labour ward etc etc...basically all the stuff that would put my mind at rest). I have done a lot of general reading, but I wondered whether it's normal not to have an appointment to discuss C-section specifically before the day, and whether other mums in Edinburgh have received better support/ info in the run up?
If it's normal not to receive info beforehand, I guess that when you arrive at the hospital on the day, this is the time for signing legal papers etc and that you get to have a chat with the consultant performing the birth before you are wheeled into theatre?
I do feel that, after 9 months of fantastic and consistent care from the community midwives, it's really gone downhill at the time I need it most! In a short space of time, I went from planning for a natural homebirth to being advised to go for a C-section, a pretty big shift emotionally smile
If anyone has any info at all, or tips related to ERI in particular, I'd love to hear from you.
Thanks xx