Hi All.
It has been a while since i last posted on here. Last time you guys were great and helped me lots with my now four year old DD and just gone DS of two.
Very quick long story short. In August i went to NZ to divorce my husband. He is english and moved over there to start a buisiness and new life. Had tryied to stop him but to no avail (you know what men are like, lol). Anyhows, whilst over there (to cut long story short) we didnt know when he would see the children again so we agreed that the children should stay with him for four weeks, It was summer, i needed to find a house back in England, Devon as he wouldnt help me and i had to sleep on mothers floor and we agreed that it would be good for the children to stay with him a little bit. I have never agreed with taking a child away from their daddy hence why they stayed. Anyway as you can guess, hubby has now refused to send them back so i am now in |England trying to get them back through Hague Convention.
I have had lots of questions, actually people highly voicing their opinions asking how could a mother leave her children in another country..... i didn't. They were staying for a holiday whilst we AMICABLY sorted everything else out.
Since then my husband has limited my skype converstaions with them and applyed for custody of our babies. Funny considering that he has never cared for them. Anyway, i needed a vent and a blah and you guys have been so supportive through the colic, sleepnesss nights, fussy eating and everything else that comes with the joy of children i felt the need to share.
So there it is in a nut shell. Probably a blurbed converstaion as i a m one of those peoiple that just writes what i think, but i am a true believer in kHARMA............. and i am hoping that you yummy mummys are to xxxxxx