Ooh, sorry, I hadn't seen these replies - thought thread had died before it lived!!
I think we're plumping for Ursuline in the end.
It had the nicest atmosphere, I liked the staff very, very much. Results are ok, we'll save a fair bit on fees so could supplement with a but of tutoring if we felt it was necessary. I've only heard positive feedback from people with girls there, including someone I work with. It's walkable from our house (15 minutes, tops) and the more I think about it, the more appealing this becomes! They can take DD2 for full (school) days in their nursery when she's three. My only reservation is that it's a bit scruffy around the edges! But it has a lovely feeling.
In short, it's a lovely school which makes our lives hugely easier in a variety of ways.
The Hall I am finally discounting. I loved the place, the facilities and lots of things about the approach but would find it hard to feel completely confident in opting for a less conventional school. I wasn't as convinced about the early years staff, (although the teachers for years 3-6 seemed really really good). Final straw was that I think the school run could quite possibly become hellish... A3, rush hour. Urgh.
The study - well we're still in the waiting list, I've had a quick look round but we can't attend a proper tour until January so I'll reserve final judgement until then. I know we're applying late, but the admissions secretary has been really quite, well, rude, frankly, and even for latecomers I would expect a bit more courtesy, after all she'd said we may well get offered a place. It's put me off a bit, tbh. I don't want a school which acts like they're doing me a favour by deigning to educate my child when I'm paying £11k a year for the privilege... I'm not asking her to kiss my behind, but a reply to a genuine email with a genuine question would be nice.
So wobbly, I think my list is probably the same as yours, (although the order is subject to change) and I think, although each school would probably score higher on separate criteria, the Ursuline probably scores best overall...
Going on your criteria, and ranking them 1,2,3 for each it looks like this:
Ursuline 2:2:1
The Hall 1:3:3
The Study 3:1:2
Thanks so much for taking the trouble to reply... Sorry for not getting back to you sooner!
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