Dear mums,
I have read through the postings on the subject of schools and have formed some initial ideas of what is ahead of me, however I felt it best to describe my particular situation in a separate post.
It is very likely that we will be moving to Edinburgh as of September 2012. DS is 9 now, which means he will be P7 as of next academic year (am I right?).
DH and I feel that his education is our priority and we will adjust the home (rent/buy, neighborhood) decision after choosing the best school.
When we moved to the UK 2 years ago, we had a hard time with the first school we picked for our son. It was the top ranked primary state school in the county (we deliberately rented a house in the catchment area) but it was huge (600+), the adjustment to the new system was difficult on DS and we were extremely frustrated by not knowing whether to move him or to pursue other options. Some helpful friends we met here told us about another school and we decided to move him, so now he is doing fantastic. His current school is really small (100 pupils), all teachers know all kids, he has made wonderful friends and he goes to school with desire and enthusiasm.
I would like to avoid this hit and miss situation if possible when we move to Edinburgh.
I understand based on my initial research that if we take the state schools option, he will have to go to a primary school for one year only (P7) and then move on to a high school. In this case he will have gone through 5 different schools altogether and I'm afraid this may be too traumatic.
On the other hand, if we try the private schools, we cannot afford Cargilfiled or Fettes or Laretto. So I am looking at George Watson, EA, Clifton Hall, George Hariot's or Stener-Waldorf.
It seems to me GW is a good option with its sports facilities (DS plays football), but you say it is very large and we were burned by a large school before. It doesn't necessarily mean that it will be a problem this time around, but something to keep in mind. EA seems smaller by your posts, does anybody know roughly the count?
I also realize that he will have to apply and take exams in all of these schools if we want to maximize his chance of being admitted anywhere. He is doing great scholastically in his current school but that might not be enough to be offered a position in a private school. Sitting for 5 different exams might also be too much for him. Not to mention that we will have to come to Edinburgh at least twice if not more.
On the other hand, changing schools may not be such a problem as I fear. Here in England, he is year 5 and it is his last year in primary school and all of his friends will be moving to the same middle school. In this case a change in schools does not seem so disruptive.
Please give me your opinions. Thanks for reading.