How long would the job be for? I didn't intend to emigrate either, I came here on a year's working holiday visa and never left.
I agree about unrealistic expectations on expat forums - some people just seem to expect a Little Britain with sunshine and cheaper houses. They seem amazed when they come across any of the normal everyday difficulties you get anywhere.
I can't advise about schooling as my dd is not 2 yet. Schools are free but they ask for a yearly "donation" which in theory is voluntary but in practice I think most people pay. I don't think it's very much though - a few hundred dollars maybe?
Quite a few people have health insurance as waiting lists can be long - health insurance quite cheap, I am looking into it at mo and am gettign quotes of about 15GBP a month which is v reasonable (that's for basic cover). In theory healthcare is free but you do pay for some things - GP visits (I pay about 5GBP a visit,some are more expensive).On the plus side,I have always got a same-day appointment as people don't tend to go to the doctors with colds when they have to pay! Children under 6 are free.
As you would expect of an island of 4 million a long way from anywhere, there is not as much to do culturally as some big European cities BUT there is stuff if you look around for it. People complain the shops aren't very good, again, smaller population so less choice. I think you can get anything you need and there is a pretty good choice in the cities. I'm kind of used to it now after 8 years.
It's very much an outdoor lifestyle and I think less materialistic over here. Great for kids - it's the equivalent of February here and I am taking dd to the beach every day at the mo as it is dry and sunny and we have a little beach across the road . She loves pottering around in the rockpools.
Right, got to go and take dd to playgroup and then the beach, I will have a think about what you should see in your 5 days here...you'll prob be jetlagged for about 3 of them!