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teafortwo · 24/09/2008 15:23

Old thread...
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to be created below!

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Cies · 07/04/2009 08:41

FOOC Galicia

Cherry blossoms in Japan sound lovely. There is a famous valley in Extremadura region called Valle del Jerte where the hills are covered with cherry trees, and at this time of year people travel from all over the country to see the beautiful blossom. PIL went this year and said it was just spectacular.

I love springtime here. The trees are all budding with new squeaky green leaves, little primroses and bluebells cover the forest floors and so many trees have pink or white blossom on them. There are many tree lined avenues in the city which take on a new fresh look at this time of year.

Holy Week, or Semana Santa is the big thing here. In many cities, but not Vigo, there are processions carrying the Virgin or Christ followed by penitents in long robes (looking a bit like the KKK to me).

The traditional food is Roscón - a kind of brioche with glacé fruit on top. But Easter eggs are also around, and the bakeries have fantastic displays of chocolate houses and figures that look too good to actually eat.

I'm getting ready for my parents to arrive tomorrow evening. They're coming for a few days R&R, to imbibe lots of Rioja and Albariño wine and to of course see their DD! Unfortunately the weather, which has been fabulous for the last month or so, has changed so we've got rain and cloud. Oh well, all the more excuse to pop into another bar!

teafortwo · 07/04/2009 08:52

FOOC Paris

RoseoftheOrient - Sounds like a fun time to be in Japan!

Gorionine - I don't know the date we will be in London yet - I will CAT you if we are around when you are - perhaps you'd have time to fit in a coffee? I will wear a carnation and have a copy of 'The Times' in my right hand

In general I am not a big fan of Easter Eggs. They seem so expensive and I feel really bad buying something that really is not good for children. So generally the children of my family get books for Easter .

My daughter's bestfriend is our babysitters daughter and we all love her very dearly. At the end of my working day I passed a bakery and like all French bakeries at this time of year the window was filled with jolly finely shaped and iced chocolate animals frolicing on mock grass. I couldn't resist! I found myself in the shop buying my daughter's bestfriend a little chocolate teddy bear who seated is 8cm high and rather dashing with his dark chocolate bow tie and slightly serious, quite nostalgic expression!

I noticed the bigger swans, rabbits and hens were heading towards 20 euros which to me seems a huge amount to spend on chocolate. The teddy bear seemed just right price wise at a little over four euros but the fact I was spending so little was ignored - I was treated as if I was buying a precious jewel. The lady lovingly wrapped him in white tissue paper and so so carefully placed him in a sturdy but very pretty white box with handle. I proudly walked through sunny Spring time Neuilly, a 'to do', leafy, chic and trendy suburb of Paris (4.bp.blogspot.com/UG1mtZtf4xc/RfXIfyfpYkI/AAAAAAAAAjg/fnIArIAhFF8/s400/IMG_0878%2Bcopie.jpg) carrying this little treasure and as I rode on the bus to the babysitter's trendy, lively and fun town called Nanterre (upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/6/6e/Cit%C3%A9_Pablo_Picasso%C3%A0_Nanterre_vue_de_la_D%C3%A 9fense_2000.jpg) I was delighted to discover enough space to give the chocolate teddy a seat of his own and wonder a little if the sweet natured girl I would give the handsome bear to will bare to eat him!

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teafortwo · 07/04/2009 08:58

Cies - Have fun with your parents!

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Gorionine · 07/04/2009 09:24

Food Greater Manchester

Teafortwo, when I read about your chocolate bear purchase, it reminded me of home, this is exactly how it would have been done at a "proper" chocolatier or confiseur in Switzerland. I also remember that in any shop (toys, perfume, bookstore...) the customer service would gift wrap your purchase if you requested it and that there was no fee for it at the time. I have never seen that here in the uk. It is a shame as I have the wraping skilss of my 2yo DD4. Do they do it in other parts of the world?

I do not think I have got CAT. I will have a look in my profile to see if "contact a mumsnetter" can be joined through that. I thought that instead of the carnation we could go for this

Cies, I remember watching a similar procession on holiday in Italy when I was little. It was quite scary actually! Oh ,and we did visit a church with my mum (as we always did!) and thought we had come straight into a funeral service. There was a glass coffin covered in flowers with a few ladies crying around it. It was actually a life sized christ they where mourning it was quite chilling too for the little girl I was at the time!

RoseOfTeOrient, I read a book from Amelie Nothomb about her working life in Japan (cannot remember the title of the book) but I remember finding it a bit surreal.

teafortwo · 07/04/2009 16:46

Gorioine - Fab link!!! Seems like we will be in London on the 17th - a week too late to see you! Oh well - I am planning to be in your woods this Autumn perhaps we could have our coffee in Manchester one day instead? I will CAT you nearer the time - just have your settings so other mners can CAT you.

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TheMadHouse · 07/04/2009 17:00

Hello everyone

My recovery has not gone well. I have had two further stays in hospital and nearly died . I got sepsis and had to have a week on really strong IV anti'B and only got released on Friday.

It has been a really hard road and I am by no means sorted I have a stoma bag over one wound and the other is packed. It seems I will be on long term antiB's, until I am all healed.

But we are all managing - just

It seems Easter has just sprung upon me. I was all prepared for DS1's 4th birthday and mothers day, but never expected to be this unwell for this long.

Today me and the boys have made, easter nest cakes and easter baskets. We have also decortaed a cowboy hat with feathers and chicks for DS2.

I have been lucky enough to receive a wonderful package from a fellow MNetter, with everything we could need for an easter hunt and more.

We spent the weekend in the garden, mowing the lawn and generally tidying.

It seems I have missed all the crocus' and a lot of the dafs are past the best.

Happy Easter FOOCS

Gorionine · 07/04/2009 17:33

TheMadHouse, your last post was so positive, I am really at the fact it turned out so difficult for you after all.

You semm very "upbeat" still though and I wish you the very best from now on!

[best wishes emoticon with bunny ears on the top]

TheMadHouse · 07/04/2009 17:46

I think that the only way to be is positive - I have had a day feeling sorry for myself - but it didnt help

Anyway with two georgous boys who could stay down for long

Gorionine · 07/04/2009 17:56

Teafortwo, every time I see your name on here this little song jumps in my head! This is one of my favourite movie. I have not seen it in a long time though, I will have to try and find a copy somewhere.

teafortwo · 13/04/2009 18:03
  • WAAOOOOWZAAAAH and "Oh my Goodness!"

Themadhouse - That is so scary! I am VERY glad you are on the up!!!!

Keep us posted on your recovery - thinking about you lots and lots!!!

x x x x

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teafortwo · 13/04/2009 19:18

FOOC Paris in Liverpool...

Due to my sister getting married to a Liverpudlian I have just spent four days in the lovely town of Liverpool.

I originally come from the South so naturally I have always thought of Liverpool as a grey city where everyone paints themselves orange, wear pjs in the street and talk in a comical way. So it was a wonderful surprise to discover this lively, fun loving, creative, dynamic and deeply human place.

I stayed in a trendy apartment at the business end of the city centre which seems to be where lots of people in their twenties like to hang around looking cool, being cool and living their lives to the max!

Liverpool city centre is very beautiful! The new shopping area is surrounded by fountains and is half covered which makes it less clostraphobic than my local Quatre Temps at La Defense. I believe it has been built using money from The Capital of Culture budget - which seemed a bit odd but in Liverpool part of the culture is the fab experimental fashion seen on every street (quite impressive for a girl like me - used to conservative Paris) - so why not build a line of shops to buy these exciting, fun, vibrant clothes in? Seems a good idea to me!

In contrast to the new fun shopping centre the old buildings are beautiful and rightous looking but have much less proud funding. Liverpool was built on the money of selling and buying slaves. These palace like buildings are a sad reminder of the UKs more shady past and humanity at its worst.

Interestingly, almost to balance the story of inhumanity hidden behind the facades of these old buildings, dotted around the entire city are many interesting sculptures that often tell of very human struggles. Whether it be the plight of slaves, The Blitz, people traveling through Liverpool to start a new lfe in America or the famous super bananalamb that I couldn't help but smile at they all pull at a heart string here or there.

What is also deeply striking is the friendliness of people. In shops people chat with strangers with a warmth people in Suffolk or Paris prefer to reserve for their nearest and dearest.

It was lovely to be so impressed by somewhere I expected to be unintersted in. Like noticing a butterfly on a concrete step.

Ontop of that I was beside myself with joy when at 9am I noticed a lady walking down the street in her pjs, and two women turned up at the wedding in mini dresses with bright orange skin and when I found myself nodding and smiling at a man, with shocking yellow hair, whom I had asked for directions because his accent was so deliciously thick I had no idea what he was saying!

Something different in Liverpool to Paris and Suffolk (the places I know the best so use as a refernce points) is this.... People just live in Paris or live in Suffolk and it is just a matter of life. Nothing to be 'proud' of. While I really felt that people from Liverpool are proud to come from such a special place. There is a sense of comradeship with other 'Scoucers' and as a result other people full-stop - a feeling of the human race moving forward together.

On a wall near the museum someone had scratched "'08 Scousers rule de World" - Perhaps a bit of an overstatement but they are at least are having a go at making sure the people who live or stay in Liverpool, even for just four days like me, realise that they are part of something big and fun and worthwhile - we are all part of this overwhelming multicolour thing called life with every colour of good and bad and all the shades inbetween.

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Gorionine · 15/04/2009 09:57

FOOC GREATER MANCHESTER (or London for now)

We have spent this long week end in London. The weather was mostly glorious and we really enjoyed ourselves. We went to Dianas's memorial fountain and it really felt like summer (exept the water was freezing) all of us has a little feet dip in it and the DCS just did not want to get out.

There was as well the expected trip to the pirate ship I told you about in previous post.

(SIL & BIL leave not far from Hyde Park, can you tell? )

We postponed the "cultural" visits for another trip as the DCs where really having a lot of fun just playing outside. They were also very happy to see their new little cousin again, she is just 14 weeks old and is just gorgeous! they all absolutely fell in love with her!

DD4 tried her best to catch pigeons and squirels but with no success! We will HAVE to come again so she can have another go!!

Teafortwo, I have not yet been to Liverpool, as I really do not live that far from it at all! It sounds like we will have a trip there soon! You made it very appealing!

teafortwo · 19/04/2009 09:52

Sounds like a wonderful trip to London!

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MmeLindt · 22/04/2009 15:01

Oh, dear. Your Geneve FOOC has been very neglectful these past weeks months. So sorry. I keep meaning to come back and read/post but something or someone interrupts and I forget.

But I am back now and have you back on my threads I am on list so will have a good chance for a catch up tonight as DH is going out for a drink after work.

I did skim the thread and saw that TheMadHouse has been having a very tough time of it. (((unmumsnettyhugs)) Glad to hear that you are getting better, even if it is slower than you hoped.

Soph73 · 23/04/2009 15:16

FOOC - Gran Canaria

Hello everyone. I have also been very negelectful but we have had rather a lot on our plate recently.

Unfortunately we "missed" Semana Santa as DS2 was in hospital suffering from pneumonia & I was given some dreadful antibiotics for a serious chest infection which made me feel awful. Anyway DS2 had to have IV antibiotics. He pulled his IV out after 5 days and the nurses tried to put another back in without success. DH said he could hear him screaming all the way down the corridor He was then allowed to take his antibiotics orally for another 2 days & then we were able to bring him home. He looked like a bruised pin-cushion poor love. Fortunately, because he's such a happy little thing he was still smiling. He kept all the nurses amused with his gurglings & raspberry blowing

The second week of our hols was mainly spent painting & tidying up in preparation for my father's visit!! Also our front door decided not to shut so we had to have that fixed - hey ho.

We started back at work this Monday and on Tuesday the radiator in our car blew up so off it went to the garage. Fortunately they are very good and got it fixed in under 24 hours.

My father and his girlfriend went home yesterday and I dropped them at the airport & half an hour later picked up my Mum We went home to find that the tap to the kitchen sink had exploded. DH is going to try and fix that today.

So, all in all it's been a very character building couple of weeks

On a non-whining note, the time trials of the Gran Canaria Motor Rally took place today right outside the School Library window so we all had great fun watching the cars haring round the very narrow, winding road past the school. These people have to be barking mad surely!!!

Anyway, sorry to be such a moaning minnie and it's nice to be back and read your lovely posts

TheMadHouse - hope your recovery picks up soon

MmeLindt · 24/04/2009 11:55

FOOC Geneva Switzerland

Back at last amongst my fellow FOOCers. It has been an eventful couple of weeks (or is it months since I posted here last).

Easter is obviously a big celebration here in the land of chocolate. The shops were full of Easter gifts, bunnies, eggs, chickens, large and small, milk and dark chocolate. One of the stores in the area, Manor, had a life size - well, larger than life size - Easter Bunny made by the Chocolatier Callier on display in the run up to Easter. The DC were fascinated to discover that it would be smashed on Easter Saturday and that they could help. The children were armed with little hammers and their payment for services rendered was a big bag of Callier Easter Bunny Chocolate.

Where else in Europe, except in Switzerland would they do that? Hand out massive bags of luxury chocolate. The DC were thrilled.

During the Easter holidays, we had SIL from Germany to stay, which in some way excuses my absence from this thread. The following week we were in Germany at PILs (I sure am a glutton for punishment) and only returned last weekend to find, you will never guess, our house has been broken into again.

This time the damage was slightly more extensive. They broke in through the (other) patio door, the first one has not yet been repaired from the last break in in January. They stole my new notebook, some jewellery and watches, French wine and champagen (they left the Italian and Swiss wines, now there is a clue!) and for some bizarre reason, the capsules for the Nespresso machine. They did not take the machine though.

The Swiss police are nothing but efficient, here within the hour but there was not really much for her to do. There were a spate of burglaries that weekend as the inhabitants of Geneva trundled home from their Easter breaks.

According to the Police, it was the "gypsies" from France. She could tell this because they had left my pearl bracelet, which according to her the gypsies are scared of. I have no idea if that is true but it is certain that the close proximity of the French border is to blame for the high crime rate here in our village.

There are grumblings in the village, a meeting was held last week and I think that something will be done. I must admit that it is rare to see a police car on patrol here so I think that might be a good starting point. They are fast to get here when there has been a break in but I feel they should be here to prevent the break ins happening.

The police in Geneva seem to be more interested in handing out speeding fines and catching people who turn left when left turn is not allowed than doing anything about the terrible crime rate. Many of the houses in our street have been burgled.

The upshot of all this is that I am doubly glad that we are well insured adn that DH's company is looking into installing an alarm system into our house.

CoteDAzur · 24/04/2009 12:20

FOOC Principality of Monaco

Well, it now seems I will have a C-Section.

Timing is a bit of a problem, though.

Normally, elCSs are scheduled at 39 weeks, but mine will be the day before I finish 40 weeks. Because my 39 weeks coincides with the F1 Grand Prix week in Monaco. So guess which one takes priority for the hospital

My doctor said they are not allowed to schedule operations for that week because they are to leave operating rooms free, in case some drivers manage to wrap themselves around a tree.

Sooooo... Any tips on how to hold the baby inside while cars varroooom about?

Gorionine · 24/04/2009 12:25

Soph73, I hope your Ds2 is much better now! Poor little mite. How old is he?

Wow @ how organised you are WRT parents holiday arrangements!!!!!

I can sympathise with all your little mishaps, we had the "year of water" here . In the last few months I have had to mop several floods due to my unreliable washing machine, had buckets in my lovingroom after DD1 forgot to put the shower cutain on, another set of bucket in the kitchen when the radiator in DCs bedroom just collapsed (weird one that one, I could not even blame the children as they were with me when it happened)

Oh MmeLindt, not again!It has not been long since last time. Do pearls work for Gypsies in the same manner as garlic does on vampires? I had never heard that one !

Could you settle a chocolate issue for me? Are the "Femina" chocolate from Callier part of the Nestle family?

MmeLindt · 24/04/2009 12:32

Hmm, maybe I should forget about the alarm system and just string pearls around the house.

Callier belong to Nestle so I guess that means Femira brand is ultimately Nestle too.

Cote
Oh, how silly. I cannot give tips on keeping babies in as my problem was always getting htem out. Magnesium is good for stopping labour so lots of bananas perhaps?

Gorionine · 24/04/2009 12:36

Cote, I was wondering about how things were for you WRT giving birth.

You might have read the thread about Wayne Rooney's wife who will have a CS at 37 weeks because otherwise there is a risc of her giving birth "clashing" with the football season, here? Seriously, people have got some strange priorities!

I have no other suggestion than keeping your legs together very tightly or find some sort of cork.

In any case, baby turning up in front of a Ferrari or when he/she has been told to I hope you will have a fantastic experience!

CoteDAzur · 26/04/2009 11:44

I'm already on magnesium supplements because of restless legs, and they have helped enormously.

I thought bananas were rich in potassium (Vit K)?

The problem with F1 weeks in Monaco is that there are typically 200,000 tourists on the streets. In a small town of 30,000 inhabitants! Which means traffic is at a standstill, and cell phones don't work (network overload). Not to mention the incredible NOISE that is the Grand Prix race itself. You would not believe how noisy it is. So even if I make it to the hospital in time to be prepped for a CS, I can't imagine suffering that noise for days in the hospital with a newborn baby.

Soph73 · 28/04/2009 10:54

Gorionine - he was 1 year old last Wednesday

MmeLindt - sorry to hear about another break in. Could be a very expensive alarm system if it's only cultured pearls that deter them

Cote - at least your LO shouldn't have any problems getting to sleep when it's noisy Is it a little girl or little boy? Am afraid I can't give any advice on keeping him/her in. DS1 was born by emergency c-section after induction, he just didn't seem to want to come out and DS2 was VBAC.

Catitainahatita · 29/04/2009 15:13

FOOC Mexico

Teafortwo invited to me over to say hello and give you all the run down on what is happening here now the apocalypse has begun.

Also I have just read your thread and am very impressed and interested by it all.

So to begin.

Buenos días a todos.
I live in the north of Mexico 800km from Mexico City. We first hard about swine flu on Thursday and nobody worried greatly because it was all happening there and not here.

The weekend brought news that the biggest area of infection outside Mexico City was in San Luis Potosí, our neighbour. Cue hysterical panic. All schools, universities and nurseries are shut. Panic buying has emptied the shelves of all related items; above all, facemasks, but also paracetamol, codeine, cough medicine, alcohol in liquid and gel, antiseptic whips, antisptic spray, chlorine, liquid antiseptic, tissues etc etc.

The shops still have plently of food suplies and bottled water (you don't drik the tap water here as it is not 100% potable). However, my pal in Mesico City says that supplie of staples are running out there now and people are hoarding. The is a general sense of doom there, apparently. Yesterday all restaurants were shut as well. Here things are still not quite that bad.

Having said all that and having read the media reports in the UK and Mexico, I have to point out that much of the hysteria is self generated. In the UK they report of up to 150 deaths from (more lor less) 2500 cases, and they do not mention that only 25 of them have been confirmed as relating to swine fever; many of the others are probably usual deaths from respiratory problems (people die every day of pneumonia).

Also not mentioned is the fact that while the number of people infected is rising, the number of deaths are falling. We had 6 die on Sat, 5 on Sun, 2 on Monday and 2 yesterday. In general the antiviral medicine works very well and people recover. Most deaths have been caused by people not receiving treatment in time.

All in all, the situation is serious and we are all taking precautions. However, I think the idea that this flu is aut to cause the number of deaths attributed to the Spanish flu outbreaks (1918-1920) is somewhat mistaken. The horsemen are still grazing their mounts, I think.

Gorionine · 29/04/2009 17:19

FOOC GREATER MANCHESTER

Hi Catitainahaitita,

It is so interesting to have unbiased news.

I think medias made so much noise arround the bird flu I find it very hard to believe there is a real danger with the swine one. I might be wrong though and I think it is sensible to carry on taking the necessary precautions.Please keep us updated.

teafortwo · 29/04/2009 19:08

FOOC France

Sarkozy was at Trocodero today - I know because I saw him! One of my students didn't see him but did see the croweds and got pulled up to have his bag checked by a Policeman on route to our lesson - lots of bags being checked!

I accepted his excuse for being late!

Catita - What a brilliant first report - but now you've made one we expect loads more!!!!

MmeLindt - Poor you - but you did make me giggle about the pearls!

CoteDAzur - I can't wait to hear news of your new little one too... How are you holding up now?

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