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Returning to UK from France - School question

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anonforthis87 · 31/07/2025 17:37

Hi all,

(Mods: Apologies for double-posting - I have asked a similar question in the primary education forum but I thought expats might also have relevant experience! Please delete if it's not appropriate.)

We’re currently living in France and considering a move back to the UK next year. I’d really appreciate insights from anyone who’s been through something similar when returning from abroad.

Our son was born in early September. Under the French system (cut-off 31 December), he’s about to start CE1, which corresponds to Year 3 in the UK. He’s doing well across subjects, particularly maths, and fully integrated into that peer group. He can also read and write in English and is getting some tutoring from a UK primary school teacher.

The challenge is that in the UK, because he was born just a handful of days after the cut-off, he’d be placed into Year 3 again when we move, so effectively repeating a year. We’re hoping to request out-of-year admission into Year 4 to avoid setting him back. My husband is quite firm that if that isn’t possible, we’ll need to rethink the move altogether as there's quite a lot of stigma around repeating years here.

We’d be moving in July 2026, and would apply for a September 2026 start, likely via in-year admissions, as we won’t have a UK address before spring. We understand this type of placement is discretionary and depends on the local authority and school agreeing.

Has anyone successfully secured an out-of-year placement for a child returning from a different system? How flexible are UK schools in these situations, particularly with September-born children who are clearly already in the higher year group abroad?

Thanks in advance, any tips or pitfalls welcome!

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Fordian · 31/07/2025 17:53

Hi, I answered you in the other section.

Cormoran · 02/08/2025 07:36

We did this for Australia coming from the French system. I read your replies in the other discussion and I think most posters have no experience of the French system.
In my case, it was the school who put DS a year ahead because of a birthday cut off and I would have happily have him repeat a year as his English wasn't very strong. However, it turned to be a great thing for him. Something I hadn't considered is how different school work ethics and discipline is in the French system, the way kids are used to do homework, respect the teacher, and very importantly, the memory training they get with all the small poems they have to memories.
DS very quickly was top of his class in most subjects, despite starting from a lower English language . I also think knowing several languages helps with knowledge acquisition.
Our experience was highly positive. The only con was when his classmates were already 18 and could go to bars and he couldn't.
DS was always very mature, so it worked for him. He didn't take a gap year - this is not part of the French culture - but this extra year he gained meant that when he changed his mind about uni choice and started a totally new degree after two years in a different one, there was virtually no difference with his peers.

If you can, fight for it. The reading levels in the Australians schools was shockingly low.
Then, I also wanted to add, yes the redoublement is a stigma, but changing country and repeating a year doesn't fall into the redoublement category.

Dolphinnoises · 02/08/2025 07:44

I’ve just come back as an expat but with older children. I would urge you to have him in the year he’d have been in anyway. There is more to being in a cohort than how he reads / writes at the age of 7. You could start him on a musical instrument if you feel he’s not being stretched. UK primary schools have insane grammar stuff like fronted adverbials to get your head around, and subjects like maths are often taught with different preferred methods.

While his English is obviously very good, educational English is different, and there will be vocab he hasn’t come across. To give an example, my 12 year old daughter, who has a great vocabulary, was caught out in a test by being asked to put something in ascending order. “Ascend” isn’t word you use much at home and she had never heard it at school.

There’s also the social element as well. I have one kid who’s the youngest in the year and one who is the oldest. It’s such a social advantage. Changing countries is a big deal socially - everything is so new and you’re on the back foot anyway. Also being over a year younger than the September born kids will be very difficult and I would guess will affect his future learning much more than an easy Year 3.

categorychaos · 02/08/2025 07:51

I’d keep him in the year that corresponds to his age in the UK. I say this as someone with September and December born DC who were in the French system from CE1 all the way to the Bac. They were both “ahead” when they chose to go to UK universities and were effectively 17 when they started their degrees and missed out on some age appropriate things (legally at least!). Also readjusting to UK system from French primary is not just about academic levels - they need time to adjust to completely new and alien system too. Good luck with the return

Blancheyo · 02/08/2025 08:01

You had a lot of good advice on your other thread yet you are continuing to refer to a UK system. Education is devolved and your issue only exists if you are moving to England; your son would be in the 'right' year in Scotland. I don't believe you came back to clarify if you were only able to relocate to England. Unfortunately the state education system in England is pretty inflexible but perhaps am expat on this board has had more luck and is able to advise.

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