Hi elvisgirl,
I too moved from the UK to Aust when I was 12 wks preg (Bad idea-very tiring moving to the other side of the world!!).
I have a 3yo DD who I had in London on the NHS and my experiences here have been very positive and so much nicer.
I initially saw a GP who refered me to an Ob/Gyn but said if I didn't like him to come back and she would find me someone else. The Ob/gyn is very good and I am now having fortnightly appnts as I'm now 33wks.
I have also had a booking in apnt at the hospital (which I chose out of 3 in the area) where I am having this baby, with a midwife (a man one which I wasn't expecting). I had a tour of the ward and the process and proceedures were explained.
The delivery rooms have queen sized beds and DH is welcome to stay with me for as many nights as I am there.
All of this is with the public system. So far this has been quite different to the midwife lead ante natal care I had in the UK but 100x better.
I am seeing the same consultant for every appnt, I have had options at every point. I haven't felt the need for ante natal classes as I've done it all before but I can't imagine that the hospitals classes wouldn't be helpful.
The NHS classes I had were kind boring and I don't feel like I got anything out of them but I did meet 2 really good friends which I found the most helpful.
Please ignore the media hype because that is all it is. Sometimes bad things happen but I feel so much more confident having a baby here on the public system than on the NHS in the UK.
Maybe you could call the maternity unit you will be using and ask for a tour and time to speak to a midwife. Or go back to your GP with questions. My hospital have given me the ward number and said I can call anytime with any questions I have. Where are you?? I am in Melbourne.
I hope this essay is useful to you, I think that it is my longest post ever!!