Lived Vancouver most of my life. My parents were born here in the 1920s.
Yes, it rains. The climate is temperate rainforest. Yes, I get tired of the rain but honestly it usually doesn't bother me much. Maybe I am so familiar with it that it seems natural. It is very hot right now, which is usual for August.
We do get nice days in winter and when they occur, the city is breathtaking, with snow capped mountains and the sea.
It snows maybe 3 or 4 times a winter but it melts fast. Once in awhile we get more snow that sticks around longer.
All manner of outdoor sports are doable year round. The joke is you can sail on English Bay in the morning and ski in the afternoon. You can golf most of the winter.
Schools are generally good. Excellent access to post secondary with UBC and many other options. Our kids were educated in Vancouver and have done very well. One a scientist in the UK and one of the leaders in his field.
Good health care. Also good availability of alternate medicine.
A very vibrant restaurant and foodie scene. Vancouverites are spoiled for choice.
The city has a very large Asian population. You can eat any type of Asian food you fancy for reasonable prices. Our grandchildren grew up using chopsticks as well as knife and fork as we tend to be adventurous with food. You can do that in Vancouver. I really miss it when we are away.
Lovely beaches you can use year round. In winter, walks on the beach with oh so happy dog off leash.
Housing is ridiculously priced I am afraid. A huge barrier. My husband and I are professionals and we have struggled all our lives to afford to buy housing. In the late 80s we managed to buy a house in a desirable area by pooling our funds with another couple and buying an older home split into two. We sold that some years ago. We had tripled our money but with our half share could still only afford a condo. It is a large one and we are comfortable but value for money it isn't when compared to other places.
The other cost of living items are fairly on par with, for example, Cambridge in the UK where we spent time each Spring. our major supermarkets are much like Sainsburys or Waitrose. If you like to cook you can find ingredients for even the most exotic dishes.
Vancouver has changed dramatically in the past 10 years. It is still changing. There is construction all over. To be honest it is a bit unnerving.
It is my home but sometimes I feel a bit squeezed out. Traffic can be awful. Drivers are not very courteous. It is much better in the UK for driving.
I think Vancouverites can be a bit smug. Our last mayor crowed about the greenest city but I question how green it is to dig up a bridge at least 5 times in the past 15 years to create bike lanes in varying configurations, each supposed to be better. Also, there was promotion of "eco density" basically meaning high rises, which are now being shown to consume vast amounts of energy. At least our electricity is hydro generated, so it is essentially carbon neutral.
Hope that helps! Sorry for the essay. I am actually a rare breed in Vancouver being second generation. I love my city very much despite its growing pains.