Weasle, Of course there are some good doctors in the UK. I think my problem is more the NHS system than the doctors. I like my GP and surgery and haven't had any major problems really, but the midwives tried to kill me. I think they are probably great for straightforward deliveries, but if there's a problem they just assume it's the mother's fault. If my husband hadn't of demanded a consultant, I might have died before DD was born. Thank goodness the doctor (which was great too) got there and sorted everything...after 3 hrs. of pushing. DD was stuck and there was no way she was going to just birth herself.
In the US, I would have had a c-section the day before at the latest (I know..I flew back for a consult with my ob and he looked at my records and the first thing he said was..."I didn't know the UK was a 3rd world county"), but I had to keep on suffering. BTW, this guy isn't a c-section happy dr. He told me c-sections were created for situations like mine, and he couldn't believe that I wasn't examined by a doctor after I had been in labor for over three days. At least I avoided a c-section, but it was so bad that now mentally I'll never be able to have another child.
Also, I had to have minor surgery and the NHS told me it wasn't necessary and then said..well it will take 12-18 mos. to get a referral to a specialist. Thank goodness DH's company also pays for private here..the only way his company gets Americans to move to the UK...so I said ok give me a private referral, and I had everything sorted by 3 mos. and was back in tip-top shape. I feel fortunate to be able to do this, but feel so sorry for others suffering and they just have to keep on suffering when they could be sorted right away too. BTW, my hand surgeon was also superb!
Before I moved to the UK, I used to think the US needed an 'NHS-type' healthcare system, but now I feel 100% the opposite.
Good luck in NJ, and let me know if you need anything else. Also, if you had a good experience, I'd love a referral too because we moved to the UK from the west coast, but we visit family in NJ and I found a great pediatician that I take DD to when we're back, but also want to find a gyn since we get smears annually in the US and because my mom died of breat cancer I get mammograms. Here you only get a smear every three years and can't get a mammogram till you're 50 no matter what your family history is...unless of course you think you have a problem and I think it's just stupid not to be allowed to get one until AFTER you think you have a problem..I totally believe in preventive medicine.
Also, we're getting DD's varicella (chickenpox) vaccine and I can't believe this isn't offered here. It's been out for 15 yrs in the US and is required before attending school so we'll probably have to get it for her sometime in any case. We're paying a fortunate to have it done at children's hospital in Bristol, but at least that's cheaper than flying back home.
Sorry for the soapbox speech..I think the care is adquate here as long as you don't have a major problem but watch out if you do. Just my opinion of course.