Hi OP, just found your post.
We are a british family living with here in HK. We have one dc who is at the Korean international school. Yes, it’s the UK curriculum. The primary school is busy, and like most schools, it’s harder to get in, mainly due to high number of applications.
However, the English headmaster is keen to keep the numbers of international students up. It’s become quite a local school of late. Mainly due to the number of local boys not coping with the local schooling. It’s not a big school, but the international section is all taught in English. Facilities are good with tennis courts, playground, swimming pool etc. Lots of extra curricular activities too. It’s in the sai wan ho area, next to Tai Koo, where the delia school is. The teachers are great, many are English and it’s a very nurturing place. Also has a busy PTA who are always looking for help. Beware the habit of Asians getting westerners to do chairman positions. Most don’t like responsibility and see the westerners as a way out of it. Unless you love PTA stuff, of course!
I agree with the others to try and negotiate school fees and or rent paid outside of your husbands take home salary. Despite tax being low here, rent is a killer and if you have school fees on top, there won’t be much left over. Will you be working?
We have been back here nearly 3 yrs. my husbands contract offered no rent or fees paid. But, bonus etc made up for that so it’s affordable for us. We only have one dc. We also live in a local area, in an older building with no “vertical village” that can offer expats the immediate social life, especially for the children. Older builds are slightly cheaper. The quality of flats is poor, but you can be lucky, we have a great flat, very neutral and our landlord is great. Some are sharks. It’s a landlords market here. But they do like to negotiate.
Western food is pricey, but it depends on how fussy you are. Sainsbury’s, Tesco, Morrison’s and M&S are all sold here. For a price. Online delivery services are becoming popular, but the culture is an old one and HK is small so people tend to buy daily.
Cars are expensive to park £300pcm for a space, but second hand market is good and leavers are always looking to off load. We don’t have a car.
A live in domestic helper will cost around £500 a month or more. You don’t have to have one of course. Then there is club membership too. Many expats have that as part of their package. That is becoming less available now. Are you sporty?
I have waffled on, but really, you want to work out if you’ll be better off here. It’s a different lifestyle. Will there be a flight home per year included? Whatever you decide, you want to make sure you don’t end up stuck here. I might also add that it is cheaper to live on the Kowloon side. Areas like sai Kung have a vibrant uk expat scene. Also Gold Coast, and further up towards the border. There are so many schools in the area. Make sure you do a thorough search. There’s also a Facebook group, Ho ng Kong Schools. That’s worth looking at. Maybe a school search company too? . Will your husbands company pay for a school search?
Will you get the chance to come to HK and see for yourself before you commit? I think it’s important that you do.
Good luck.