My dds take the bus to school, we were in Singapore previously and they have taken school buses since the age of 3. Take about 35-40 minutes to get there but our bus doesn’t stop en route. Other buses from Katy, Lakes on Eldridge and Cinco Ranch take as long as they stop.
Montrose is fab, a great place and good for going out, museums etc.
To be honest if you want to drive to BISH (British School) every day, you’ll end up in Katy. It’s not so much the drive there in the mornings but the drive back home can take a good hour because you’re following commuters into town. I have lots of friends in Katy but personally could not live there. I find it soulless and drab, nearly all the restaurants are chains, very few independent bars, shops and coffee shops, even the architecture is brown and square. Same for Lakes on Eldridge, which got hammered during the recent flooding as many of the houses are built within the boundaries of the reservoir... LOE does have a lot of expats and it’s popular with BISH families but it’s in the middle of an industrial estate and more unimaginative brown boxes in my opinion.
In your shoes, I would seriously consider living in Montrose, West U, Bellaire, Alton Oaks .... all inside the 610 loop, and looking at American preschools for my kids. Many transition back and forth from the US system and it only starts to get complicated when you are trying to fill gaps about European history or American geography in senior school.
We love living where we do. BISH used to be 15 minutes from our house (we bought our house) but then moved to Katy 2 years after we arrived. My kids were dead against moving house and keen to stay at BISH so they’re on the bus and traveling with friends, iPods etc are fine but it’s a long bus ride for little ones.
It’s not an easy decision but will be clearer when you start to see Houston. I have a good friend who lives inside the 610 loop, British expat mum, who is a realtor and relocation consultant. If you need one, let me know and I can pm you her details.
As a side note, property here in Houston is a bit crazy at the moment. Lots of debris stacked along the side of the road, many houses uninhabitable and rentals oversubscribed. The market will calm down but personally I wouldn’t consider a house that had flooded, even if a landlord promises to make it good before you move in.