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Moving to USA and specifically to Boston??? Advice Please!

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AgnesG · 25/05/2017 21:26

Looking for some advice. We are currently pondering the idea of moving to Boston for two years. My DH works for a company based in Cambridge MA and they would jump at the chance of having him locally for a while. I also work for a US-based firm and I'm confident they would be happy for me to work from home. We have one 9-yo DS. We own our house here in the UK and are fortunate enough to be mortgage-free. DH would get a bump in his salary (I'm not sure how much though) and I wouldn't even consider it if we couldn't live in a naice apartment in a naice location close to his work.

Possible Advantages

  • Easier for DH - he does a lot of travelling to and from US and spends every evening doing conference calls on US time and probably a good step in terms of his career.
  • Great opportunity for DS to experience life in another country.
  • Better climate.
  • I spend 4 months living in downtown Boston about 15 years and a lifetime ago and really loved the US-but-slightly-European vibe and the great outdoor life
  • Lovely places to visit nearby

Possible Disadvantages

  • Major upheaval sorting this out in the next few months (I'd like to move before the start of the new school year) can I really manage this?
  • Finding the right school (for a bit of background DS is reasonably bright and LOVES any kind of sports so I'd like something to suit that and also to be sure he'll be ready for secondary school when we come back)
  • Finding a place to live (DH could probably make a trip across to do some viewings)
  • Expense of living in Boston (I understand it doesn't come cheap!)

Questions

  • How much would we need monthly to live a comfortable lifestyle?
  • Would we need to consider private school or are the state schools good?
  • Where is the best place to look for apartments?
  • Any other things to consider?
  • Am I crazy for even thinking about it?

If anyone has any experience of a move/decision like this or has any good information about locations/schools/generally about Boston and Cambridge I'd love to hear about it!! Many thanks in advance.

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ittooshallpass · 17/06/2017 04:30

Love Boston. Lived there for most of my 20s. Winters are really not a problem as everthing is geared up for it. I found summer harder... all that humidity!

Loved the lifestyle. Beach every weekend in summer and skiing in winter helps that there is so little annual leave.

I lived in New Brighton and Watertown but after a few years went further north to Wakefield. Commute was fine but I had no kids then!

Your 9 year old will love the outdoor lifestyle. Loads of sport and the school facilities are amazing.

You won't come back after 2 years... I went for 3. Came back after 5...

AgnesG · 17/06/2017 11:47

Loving the additional feedback, thanks! Looks like it is definitely happening, I think it is an amazing opportunity and we'd regret it if we didn't go for it. We just need to try to sort the visas quickly before start of the new school year. DS is talking positively about it but is nonetheless adamant that we're going for 'just a year mummy'. I'm just going to let him roll with that as I too think he'll love it when we get there and if not... well, very little in this life can't be undone and if he's really unhappy we'd come home.

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Usernamefinallyavailable · 01/09/2022 22:15

@AgnesG did the move happen?! We're in the same position currently!

BritWifeInUSA · 05/09/2022 01:10

@Usernamefinallyavailable a quick advanced search shows that Agnes did move overseas for a few years (although it’s not clear whether it was actually Boston) but has been back in the UK a few years now. If you have specific questions you might be better off starting your own thread as the information on here could now be out of date. 5 years is a long time.

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