We are teachers in our sixth year of living overseas and about five months ago moved to a small town, after living in big cities since we left.
We moved for the lifestyle (big house with garden, can walk to work, swimming pool in compound, 5 minute drive to the beach) but in doing so, took a huge salary hit. We are still doing ok, just won't have 5* holidays for a bit. Overall, we love it here.
We just found out that the swimming pool in our compound needs repairs and the community has voted to empty it instead. The dcs (10, 5) and I want to move to a house with a pool (this is part of the lifestyle). Dh wants to stay as the convenience of walking to work and having our nanny drop off and pick up dc2 outweighs having a pool and there are pools and beaches all over the place that we can go to, we just need to drive to them.
What would you do? Any thoughts? Has anyone been in a similar situation? Thanks so much.