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Living in America 2015

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rootypig · 01/03/2015 05:32

New thread. In honour of:

  1. allegedly Irish bangers discovered I saw in Trader Joe's today, which made me think of you lot and especially you Want2b, you pork fanatic Grin - I will report back; and

  2. taxes bloody argh! do I have to do this? NOW??? My green card was granted in August last year and I didn't earn a bloody penny. What am I supposed to put on a tax return Confused

How else is everyone's American odyssey going?

yours chaotically, as ever,

rooty

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Mrsfrumble · 15/04/2015 16:59

Testing in Pre-K?? Is this is a public or private school?

Oklahoma public schools do offer a statewide Pre-K program, but we've decided to leave DS at the little private church school where he's currently in preschool. Mostly because OKC public schools have a horrible reputation; our allocated elementary has a rating of 2/10. Based on what, I don't know, but it's hardly encouraging...

I do worry slightly that he'll be behind when he starts Year 1 back in London, but at least he's getting socialized and used to a school environment.

I'd like to give his teacher a gift too. She's amazing! I don't know the etiquette though. I'm finding that a lot since DS started school, with all the class parties and parents making lunches for the teachers and stuff.

kickassangel · 15/04/2015 17:00

The falls at Niagara are great, BUT the town is seedy down-at-heel sea side type thing. Think Blackpool without the glamour. Also, depending on the exchange rate, we found it VERY expensive compared to MI. Most things cost more than I'd expect to pay in the UK, e.g. an ice cream at Toronto zoo cost the equivalent of US $3. Also, everywhere seemed to charge extra for every little thing which I'm not used to in MI, but happens in the UK more (again - the zoo, there were extra charges for extra bits you'd want to see, rather than one ticket getting you in everywhere). It's probably quite cheap compared to NYC, but I'm used to my quiet little backwater of small town living where everything is affordable.

Didn't go to the US side so can't compare.

The town of Niagara on the Lake is far nicer, but also far more expensive.

To go to Canada you need passports (this is relatively modern and lots of Michiganders don't have passports as they used to just drive back and forth) and if you drive, you need to let your insurance know. There's some kind of letter of proof that you should have in your car which they'll send out to you. (Although we've been across for the evening and not bothered)

If you're driving, then the part of Canada you drive through has a small town called Stratford that has a Shakespeare festival each summer, where they put on lots of Gilbert & Sullivan and George Bernard Shaw (and some Shakespeare).

The towns are all called things like Windsor, Cambridge, London, Stratford etc. We spent the journey spotting British towns we'd been to.

Mrsfrumble · 15/04/2015 17:29

What's the deal with visiting Canada with a British passport and US visa?

CloserToFiftyThanTwenty · 15/04/2015 22:58

You don't need a visa to visit Canada with a UK passport, but I wouldn't personally travel with only a few weeks left on my US visa (in case the Canadian border force S&E concerned it will expire during my stay in Canada and therefore wouldn't be re-admissible to the US)

kickassangel · 16/04/2015 01:05

Depends which visa. You can enter Canada but may not be able to re-enter the US. I was in the U.S on a long term student visa years ago and we very definitely could not leave and except via the U.K. The visas we had when we first moved here we could come and go as we wanted.

Want2bSupermum · 16/04/2015 01:34

MrsF DD is in federal funded prek3. They call the tests assessments. Some parents dont know about it because they are called assessments and the teachers don't like to tell parents they are testing the kids because some get competitive. Very lucky with DD's class. The parents are all lovely.

LikeABadSethRogenMovie · 16/04/2015 19:48

Have any of you bought swimwear from Title Nine? I'm just browsing the catalogue and it seems pretty like Athleta in price, but is it decent quality?

MyFriendsCallMeOh · 16/04/2015 20:45

Watching with interest, the title nine catalogues make me feel I should be wearing sportswear everyday, but haven't ordered yet!

Want2bSupermum · 17/04/2015 02:11

I get my swimwear from everything but water and buy them in the sale. Full price they start at about $130 but I wait and buy them for about $50-60.

FlipFantasia · 17/04/2015 20:14

Swimwear is one of those things I think i always get wrong...funnily enough the maternity one piece I had last year (from target) was my favourite ever but can't wear it anymore. And after dc3 definitely no more bikinis for me!

I find sportswear does nothing for me (I consider yoga sport lol!) except on my very occasional jogs. But I just ordered from modcloth today as I needed new skirts and birkenstocks. Also bought a v glam looking vintage style black dress for a wedding in the summer. Hope it looks nice on as I could do with having a good lbd in my wardrobe (sometimes I miss my London days when I had enough of a social life to warrant going out clothes!).

rootypig · 24/04/2015 21:28

Hello all. Saw this NPR article and thought of our Oklahomans. I felt my first earthquake the other week, a 3.5 but we were pretty close to the centre. One jolt, and because it was so minor it was fascinating rather than scary, literally feeling the earth move. Though we still haven't done our earthquake kit Blush

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Mrsfrumble · 24/04/2015 22:58

Yep, according to Mr Frumble we've had loads this week and I haven't felt any of them Blush!

It is rather disturbing. The potential for natural disasters seemed quite evenly distributed throughout the country; hurricanes on the east coast, earthquakes in the south west, volcanos in the north west and tornados in the middle. It seems a bit unfair that Oklahomans now have to deal with tornados and earthquakes (even if it is self-inflicted).

Want2bSupermum · 27/04/2015 15:52

We had an earthquake in New Jersey back in 2011 in August. I felt it because our home was very old and moved.

So I am in California, about 45mins from LAX and on the coast. It's a work leadership training course so I am being naturally British/ east coast about this. Quite frankly I really don't want to share with a bunch of people I don't know but might end up working with in the future. They had us fill out a questionnaire to help us determine our values. We are required to talk about an example of an incident where we demonstrated our top values.

However the resort we are staying at is lovely. Having breakfast on a terrace overlooking the Pacific Ocean, listening to the waves.

Rooty and ATB - it's really green here. Is it always this green. It's also cooler that I thought it would be!

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kickassangel · 28/04/2015 01:40

Alpaca, I didn't notice, but did feel the cold. Meant to be getting warm this weekend. Hopefully it will stay that way,

rootypig · 28/04/2015 02:17

Welcome to California Want! Yes, it is always that green. It's all the rain we get, dontcha know.

The greenness of southern California is insane. Insane.

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LikeABadSethRogenMovie · 28/04/2015 02:28

I'm very jealous! I would move to California tomorrow if we could. It's one of my most favourite places in the world. The West Coast totally beats the East Coast for amazing scenery!

Alpaca we had snow and hail here the other day. My FB newsfeed was full of WTF's?!!!

rootypig · 28/04/2015 02:29

Well we should swap then Seth, because I'd love to get out of here!

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itsveryyou · 28/04/2015 02:30

We've had a really wet, stormy and soggy spring here in Tx. Last night we had tornadoes hurtling towards us but they disappeared before they got to us, thankfully. We had an escalated warning on Friday, but we were eating our tea, so missed it...ha, oops!! (Unintentionally cavalier attitude to big weather)

Regarding swimsuits, I love LandsEnd and also I got a lovely one piece from Academy, I need them long in the body as am tall, and I was chuffed to find it fit really well. Everything but water is a gorgeous store, but I've never found anything I love in the sale.

LikeABadSethRogenMovie · 28/04/2015 02:40

LOL! Ok, Rootypig. I have a 4000sq ft house with a pool you can only use for 3 months and looks miserable for the rest of the year. Very neurotic neighbours come free. What can you swap me?!! Grin

Itsvery where in Texas are you? We're having a very rare break without the kids coming up and are going to Austin. I'm really excited!

rootypig · 28/04/2015 02:42

Er, I have a lovely two bed flat with institutional carpet. One bathroom BUT I just put delightful shelves and some hooks up! Communal swimming pool you can use year round. Fake grass (not joking).

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itsveryyou · 28/04/2015 02:48

seth we are just north of Fort Wort. Where are you? We went to Austin last year, loved it! Weirdly we found that loads of restaurants closed super early up in the evenings so we struggled to find anywhere to eat...think that was more like bad planning on our part! We loved the area over the river/lake which is really quirky and bohemian...more like San Francisco than the Texas we know. Have fun when you go!

MyFriendsCallMeOh · 28/04/2015 04:16

We're in houston but visited Austin last weekend. The bat cruise (lone star cruises) is amazing, seeing the worlds largest urban bat population depart along the river at dusk is a fantastic sight. We also did the new kids museum, the thinkery, which is super cute and really cleverly done. I really liked Austin, a bit less corporate than houston, definitely going back.

LikeABadSethRogenMovie · 28/04/2015 04:18

Awww, now I look like a complete brat!! :D

Itsvery, we're in suburban NY. The whole restaurant closing early thing happens here too. I still can't get used to it. I know that the majority of residents are commuting into the city really early in the morning, but it seems crazy that the entire town is pretty much asleep by 9pm. It always makes me want to do a Wee Willy Winkie!

LikeABadSethRogenMovie · 28/04/2015 04:22

Myfriends Corporate is exactly the way I've heard Houston described as and Austin is always described as the arty one! Do you like Houston?