My DH is currently negotiating with his boss who wants to extend our posting to China. So we are considering again all the benefits we have for being here. In theory we should no worse off financially. What do you have or what do you wish you'd asked for?
We have driver & car (not allowed to drive here), private schooling, healthcare, tax accountants for complex tax returns, tax equalising so we don't end up paying more tax through being abroad, culture and language lessons (now finished but will ask for more). Anything else we should ask for? Actually having listed it I already feel pretty pleased with the list!