I'll try to keep it short, but fear this will get long as I need a rant too.....
We are in the US just now, DH works on a project based north of Perth. We had an horrendously crappy year last year, and we were looking forward to 2015 to be a year of healing, and happier things coming our way. I'm not happy at my current company, and was hoping to go back to my previous employer who DH happens to work for, he put in my CV, and the mgr of my dept asked if we would move to Perth. I said no, it's too much stress to move, we've only been in current location for 17mths (bought a house, car on finance, kids in school settled). I'd have to reset everything again, take 2 mths of work for the move and finding a place etc... you get the picture.
So DH is on a call to the Perth office the very next week, and it turns out they're looking for someone for a mgmt position. DH without thinking OR discussing with me, put himself forward. It's now at the point where they thnk he can do it easily, and the PM will speak to him about it next week as a final kind of "interview" for the position. If they offer it, he will have to take it and I feel very cross with him as we can't be seen to be mucking the company around. That normally doesn't end well.
So where do I start? I've worked in Australia before, but only in Qld, and NSW. Have never been to Perth.
I understand that we'd have to pay $6k towards state schooling (2 DC), do any expats get this reimbursed by their employers?
Last I lived in Oz, families were getting $3600 per mth for housing, not sure if this has increased or what other benefits we'd get (I asked DH to get the benefits pkge but he hasn't yet). We'd need min 3bed, preferably 4 bed, with good primary schools, good commute into the city, would like a pool, and neg. with landlord to include pool service, gardening, and pest control in the rent. Which areas would be suitable for us?
Is there good mass transit into Perth downtown, or does everyone drive? I presume we'd need 2 cars there, as I hope to get a job also.
How about before/after school care? What is the situation with that and cost? Do schools provide it there? Or do you have to find an outside provider, is it well catered for?
Does anyone use an after school sitter that could pickup DC from school, take them to our home, do homework, supervise and perhaps do their dinner?
Is there a bus service for the schools (we're in the US so get the yellow buses), or is it very much get yourself to school? What hours generally are the primary schools?
I almost feel now, that's easier for me just to stay at home with them, but we'd lose 40% of our income and things would be tight until DH gets a few more promotions.
I really just do not need this now, nor do the DC, but he is so thoughtless and now we're on the juggernaut of a move.