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How easy is it to integrate into Sydney Life as a 3 yr + expat ?

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crochetqueen · 14/09/2012 14:04

I posted here last month as we're looking into a move to either Sydney or one of the big Asian cities and are about to go on our "look see" trip.

One thing which occurred to me was that, if we ended up in Sydney, as lovely a place as it is (I've visited friends who lived there previously and enjoyed my time there) , would it be hard to integrate into local life there? As everyone speaks English already and the culture is not too different from the Uk and presumably kids (primary age) land up in local primary schools would it be harder there than, say, an Asian city where there is an "expat" life where people are presumably more open to making friends/including you in things because everyone is in the same transient sort of boat ?

I'm not trying to say that the Aussies/locals would be unfriendly but hopefully you get my drift. I would imagine, for example, that if someone new turned up in our community in the UK and the kids were put into the local school that people would definitely make an effort and if kids are at school they would make friends but it wouldn't be as easy as if we were all coming and going and therefore if it's an established rather than a transient community then it might be harder ?

What's your view if you've done that - particularly if you went there temporarily rather than to emigrate ?
Many thanks

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Mosman · 14/09/2012 14:49

We have moved to Perth recently in a pretty transient area where people are always coming and going. I have not said how long we are planning to stay because that's irrelevant, do you want to be friends with us here and now or not Grin
I have to say I have never been so happy, the kids are really happy, we have friends already, we l

Mosman · 14/09/2012 14:50

We're really happy which we weren't in the UK so it was a good move for us. I doubt you would regret Sydney but is it a bit safe if you're looking for adventure ?

crochetqueen · 14/09/2012 17:58

It's more a case really of where we would be happiest as a family for medium term posting. Part of me would love something really different and DH's company are international worldwide so there are possiblities all over the world but Sydney, a couple of Asian Cities and then Europe have been suggested. I've been to all the places suggested save for Shanghai which is the one which "interests" me the most just because if we are given the opportunity it might be something so different from what we are used to.

We have a lovely life in the UK, kids at a great local school (pre-school and year 2) a great set of dependable local friends and lovely old friends not to far away and a very supportive family no further than 40 mins away. So, do we go for a like for like without the support system (that to me would be a Sydney type option) and hope that in time we make friends and feel at home or go for the whole "expat" lifestyle in a completely alien environment with the international schools, domestic help, etc etc.

I don't mind being somewhere which feels a bit alien as long as we can settle in and I suppose that leads me to the question of which would be easier on that front ?!

Hard eh ? and I might be trying to hard to find the answer to something I won't know til i start living there...nothing is ever perfect I know that.

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solittletimeandsomuchtodo · 14/09/2012 20:17

Any idea which part of Sydney?

crochetqueen · 14/09/2012 20:29

I think the offices are out north of sydney going towards Willoughby....definitely somewhere North....

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solittletimeandsomuchtodo · 15/09/2012 11:45

I think if you choose a child friendly suburb, get involved with school and weekend sports -be proactive with invites, then it won't take long to make friends.
A lively lifestyle change-easy access to beach for the summer! But not really an adventure.

crochetqueen · 15/09/2012 12:30

Thanks for that - the older DS is definitely showing signs of loving anything outdoorsy and all sports and as a family we're pretty active. I don't mind putting myself out to meet people and we're generally quite sociable so hopefully that might help. As you say, it won't be an adventure but it probably would be quite a good experience.......

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CornishMade · 15/09/2012 12:44

It's still an adventure, as Australia is pretty different to the UK! But yes, of course, not as great a change and adventure as Shanghai would be.

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