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Living in America 2011

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MmeBucket · 04/03/2011 02:35

We were a few messages away from being closed on the other one. Hope everyone finds me here.

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tadjennyp · 27/09/2011 18:33

We bought a trailer over the weekend so I can put the baby in it and dd can cycle to school! We can only do this while ds is in pre-school as currently he is so slow on his bike! Dh is still cycling to work as when I get back from picking dd up, we then have to pile into the car to go and get ds! I'm hoping that it will shift some of this baby weight!

Do you still work in NYC blackcurrants?

blackcurrants · 27/09/2011 19:05

yes - only two days a week, thank heavens (hour and a half commute each way) -I work from home the rest of the time.
I fancy a trailer, I think... but I know DS would LOVE being up on the handlebars, having a good stare...

I could use shifting a bit of baby weight - I keep meaning to join the town Y...

spamm · 28/09/2011 01:46

blackcurrant - "I keep meaning to join..." is better than "I have joined and nt yet been to...". My dh is still laughing at me...

blackcurrants · 28/09/2011 01:52

There are some quite good classes at my local one. And it's a short mile's bike ride away. And they actually do some childcare... oh I really do need to join. I can afford it. And it will be time out of the house, which is key when you work from home!

tadjennyp · 03/10/2011 22:56

Hello all. Autumn has finally hit here. Won't be doing too much more cycling to school, I think, though ds2 does look very cute in a helmet!

How is everyone else? School is well and truly underway though I think there are a few days off coming up shortly. Still haven't heard about our green card, though it's been over a month since our biometric data was taken (actually 4 months since dh's). His work is really annoyed as they need to send him abroad a lot and haven't been able to since the end of March. Can't plan a trip home for Christmas either. Oh well, saves a fortune, doesn't it?!

Hope no-one is affected by the flooding and that the weather settles down for everyone.

blackcurrants · 04/10/2011 18:34

Yeah, the weather has definitely turned autumnal. Crispy leaves underfoot in NJ, and brisk wind. I'm vaguely worried about DS's bedroom being the coldest and least-well insulated in this house. The layout is such that we can't really change it, but we moved here in July and it was hard to know... hmm.
We're staying in the USA for Christmas, after the total fiasco of trying to fly home last year. On the upside, it means we're going to visit friends in New Orleans, which I've always wanted to see.
I'm going to try to keep on biking till the snow falls. It's SO much quicker than walking to the train station, which is my only other option. Plus, I love being on a bike. But soon enough it'll be too cold to do it in a skirt!

MmeBucket · 08/10/2011 18:57

No biking in the 'burbs of Portland. We'd have a 3 mile each way journey on a busy road with no bike lane, and minimal to no shoulder the entire way.

We're in full swing here. Busy with school, soccer, and watching other people's kids. This seems to be the year of the vanishing child care for a lot of people around here.

Sorry to all that don't get to go home for Christmas. DH works retail, so we're always home, because he has to work until the late evening on Christmas Eve and get there around 5 am on Dec. 26th.

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tadjennyp · 09/10/2011 18:30

Do your dcs ride the bus MmeBucket? Dd would love to if one came this way! I thought Portland prided itself on being a bike-friendly city? Daycares round here are struggling a bit too; ds1's is half empty since the eldest class started Kindy. Soccer, swimming lessons and kids parties are keeping us busy. Next week dd has two days off school for teachers' conferences. It's our first meeting - quite nervous really! Smile

Hope everyone else is doing well? Anyone got any good recipes for zucchini and/or squash?

MmeBucket · 12/10/2011 01:37

They do 3 days a week. Most schools around here don't have a bus as everyone lives within a 1 mile radius of the school, but we're pretty spread out. I help 2 days a week, so I drive them, since I'm already going that way.

What kind of recipes for zucchini/squash are you looking for? I have a lot.

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MmeBucket · 12/10/2011 01:38

Oh, and Portland is very bike friendly. Outlying areas not so much. Nor are they connected well by public transportation.

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kickassangel · 12/10/2011 01:55

why did i forget that teaching is so tiring?

not heard a thing from cupcake wars.

back to marking grading papers.

no bike trails here, but loads of people cycle through the windy roads & stop for cider at the mill.

tadjennyp · 12/10/2011 02:51

Do you have any recipes for zucchini bread/muffins, seeing as both of you are experts? Grin

I forgot that you are teaching English too kickass!

How do you help in the classroom, Bucket?

I take my hat off to both of you!

MmeBucket · 12/10/2011 03:00

I have recipes for almost everything having to do with zucchini. Give me a day or two, I have a new computer and I'm trying to figure out how to transfer my bookmarks from a semi-working computer to this one.

I just go in and do whatever I'm told. In DS' class, I do all sorts of things, from grading papers to helping with the kids, to doing art projects, to helping decorate the classroom to shuttling DD back and forth between her class and DS' class. In DD's class, I mostly babysit and do stuff involving the letter of the week. I like being in DS' class much better.

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kickassangel · 12/10/2011 03:24

Those roads are ones that wind, not ones with wind ...

tadjennyp · 12/10/2011 06:45

That sounds really fun MmeBucket! Thanks for looking that up for me. Must harvest the last of the veg this week.

I did read it as breezy roads - but cycling to a cider press sounds great. We cycle down to the coffee shop in our sleep deprived state!

MmeBucket · 13/10/2011 23:24

852 recipes and not having much luck with the transfer. It'd eventually better work, because I'm going to be seriously upset if all the time I spent bookmarking them was a waste. I don't think it was my total favorite, but I know I've used this recipe before, and I really like her recipes in general. I also had one for a pretty healthy chocolate zucchini cake, but I can't remember where it was from.

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blackcurrants · 14/10/2011 15:26

I like the joy of baking site and while I haven't used their Chocolate Zucchini Bread recipe, I trust them on banana bread, which is a very serious business in my house. [sagenod]

Grey and miserable here in the NJ suburbs. This is our first Hallowee'n living in a house not a flat, and there are lots of kids on this road, so I think we might get trick-or-treaters for the first time ever. How many tonnes of sweeties do people lay in? It would be awful to run out, but nor do I really want to fill the house for weeks. . .

kickassangel · 14/10/2011 20:01

blackcurrants - i get in about 3 big party bags of candy, but ours is the quiet end of the neighbourhood. Some houses near us offer adults a beer as well!

dd gets enough candy to last her through until after christmas. in fact, she often has to empty her stash out into the car in order to keep going!

so, if there's a lot of kids around, then quite a lot is the answer. if you don't want to do it, just leave your lights off & don't decorate the front porch (at least around here)

blackcurrants · 15/10/2011 11:45

Thanks Kickass - I think we're going to do a BJs run tomorrow, so we'll stock up. I suppose DH could always take the leftover sweets to his homeroom if there are too many of them. Or I could even give my students a treat!

What age group do you teach, if I may ask? DH is a middle school teacher and I'm finishing a PhD and contemplating teaching High School English. I've done a fair bit of teaching in my PhD, but nothing as intensive as a High School week. So I'm asking all teachers about their lives, atm :)

SweetFudge · 15/10/2011 22:33

Hi everyone, Can I join the thread? We've been here three years (almost) and are in NoVa (in the D.C. Metro area). Moved here from Herts and it's lovely but why, why, why can't we get good cheese?!! Last time we were back, a tear rolled down my cheek as I munched on a bog standard stick of kiddie cheese from M&S. Yes, pathetic but understandable in the circumstances..

kickassangel · 15/10/2011 23:44

sweet Fudge - we welcome everyone here (even Brits just being nosey who have no intention of moving this way!)

You can usually find good cheese, but you want to find a deli. some supermarkets have decent (ok, rather than GOOD) cheese in their deli section. I'm surprised where you are that you don't have some international shops.

Blackcurrants - I teach 8th Grade. It's part time, but 70%, so still feels like a proper job.

In the UK I taught secondary school. Here I'm in a small private school, and it's so much easier (I did FT for 4 months as mat cover last year) than teaching in the UK. Even state school teachers get significantly more time off for planning, less meetings, much longer holidays, and less targets and grading achievements.

Having said that, if you care at all about the children you work with, it's a never ending job.

I used to do a lot of the in-class training with student teachers in the UK. The ones who coped best were (generally) those who'd worked with kids before, and/or parents. They just got that there would never be an end to the 'to do' list, much like parenting, and coped with that aspect of the job. For me, that's the hardest part, that emotionally it's impossible to switch off at times. Recently we took 8th Grade on retreat. I loved it, but was completely exhausted - like new born child exhausted - even though I didn't do any of the physical activities (I had a kid with mobility issues, and I have a big wussy fear of heights). All of us that slept there agreed - you just sleep with one ear open when you're with kids 24/7.

Personally, I think you have to really love being around kids, as well as the subject you teach, as they are both important to doing the job well. I'm afraid that I'm not very tolerant of half-hearted teachers.

Fudge - it's Jaffa Cakes we miss the most, but Kroger's imitation just about keeps us sane.

hootiemcboob · 16/10/2011 01:15

ooh! we can now get Jaffa Cakes here at Publix. They cost a king's ransom, but that doesn't stop me.

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blackcurrants · 16/10/2011 03:13

oh god jaffa cakes! jaffa caaaakes! I can even get sarsons vinegar and a flake at fairway in nyc but jaffa cakes are the holy grail. . . I'd moan more but I'm on mysecond glass and am such a lightweight now that the typing is probably suffering. Thanks for that info Kick - DH is also a Brit and finds it better here too.

tadjennyp · 16/10/2011 04:41

I don't think I've found jaffa cakes here, but the cheese in Oregon is fantastic and correspondingly pricy! Envy of all the teaching going on (and really pleased for you too, of course! The two hours a week I do with the Community Learning here are great, but not nearly enough. Unfortunately German seems to have been cut from all the programs here so I will struggle to get a job.

It is my birthday tomorrow and the eldest dcs have helped dh bake me a cake. I am intrigued as to what else he has planned! Hope you all have a wonderful weekend.

P.S. Did cupcake wars ever get back to you, kickass?