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Whats NZ really like?

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SantasMadMissy · 26/12/2010 17:28

As per title really! I see lots about emmigrating to OZ but whats NZ like?

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thelittlestkiwi · 28/12/2010 09:44

It sounds very different to our lives here. But even in a central Auckland suburb things shut really early. We can't get a takeaway after 9pm and people are home in bed very early. When I lived in Scotland we used to go out at 10pm! I'm also totally car dependent for the first time in my life. Bus is once an hour and 20 mins walk away. Not good for my green credentials.

SantasMadMissy · 28/12/2010 09:49

Thanks so much! Its easier to get why our lives can b so opposite when I read all these.

What's Wellington like?

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SantasMadMissy · 28/12/2010 09:50

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twinsister · 28/12/2010 09:52

gosh, I can't imagine what central Auckland suburb has a bus only once an hour?! And no takeaway places open past nine?

twinsister · 28/12/2010 09:55

I do agree with the bed thing generally though. It definitely feels like here in London people stay up later, get up later, get to work later. Whereas in NZ, Auckland anyway, being in the office at 7.30/8am isn't uncommon. Then you can leave at 5 and go to the beach! Except when it's pouring like it is now...

pavlovalover · 28/12/2010 09:56

Wellington is small and compact, very easy to live in with (relatively) good public transport, good schools, and friendly people. The weather is the only really bad aspect, but it depends on whether you're an outdoor person or not, and it improves only an hour or so up the coast or over in the Waiarapa. Most jobs are government/public sector, but also lots of arts stuff going on, including much of the film industry.
It is cheaper than Auckland, but also much quieter and colder and windier.

HavingAMaybe · 28/12/2010 10:20

No one has really mentioned the south!

I am in the South Island. I've lived in Auckland and in London.

NZ gets less multi-cultural the further south you go and more sparsely populated.

I live in one of the major cities and I can grocery shop at any time of the day. Here, and in most places in NZ you are always pretty close to whatever you fancy as far as beaches, mountains, lakes etc. And there are lovely places that are not crowded or 'touristy'.
Because we are a smaller country (in terms of population and geography) I think that new technology and ideas are more easily adopted here. Our banking systems are very progressive (I've worked in banking) and we are just about cashless.

On the downside, I find my city to be very 'small' in terms of degrees of separation. Social circles are fairly small I think. (Maybe just mine?). And you can never go anywhere without bumping into someone you know.

When I moved back here after living London, I found it odd that people really stare at you on the street. In the UK, generally no-one pays you any attention. Here, everyone eyes each other up. And if you look a bit different, people really stare (in my city at least).
As a couple of others have mentioned, it is pretty difficult to get around without a car. The public transport system is nothing compared to the UK.

It's late here and I think this is a bit jumbled and rambly! Hope it makes sense. On the whole, if I was being really honest I would say that I wish I still lived in the UK. But don't let that put anyone off :)

HavingAMaybe · 28/12/2010 10:22

..oh, and you can totally get takeaways after 9pm here! (Seems to be of concern!)

SantasMadMissy · 28/12/2010 10:32

Grin at the takeaway!

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thelittlestkiwi · 28/12/2010 19:44

Havinga maybe- I agree, things change here faster. One issue I have with NZ is that people can come across as a wee bit racist.... Especially bloody estate agents.

Rwinsister- we live near Mission Bay. I know about the takeaways as I went hungry on Thursday due to OH's dithering....

I think the bus thing is down to the low density population. But I do find the price of buses here stupid. They should be so much cheaper to encourage people back into the city center. I often drive to Mission Bay and use it like a park and ride as they are every 10 mins from there.

thelittlestkiwi · 28/12/2010 19:45

I'm loving hearing about other lives in NZ btw.

WhatSheSaid · 28/12/2010 21:20

I love hearing about other lives here too...we have a 24 hour supermarket less than 10 minutes drive away...not that I ever need to use it late, I'm too knackered to stay up past about 9pm at the moment (5 months of sleep deprivation)

moragdingdongbellingham · 28/12/2010 21:29

My DH wants to go back to NZ and I said the only place I would go would be Auckland - Mission Bay!
Was nice when we went but didn't realise it was somewhere we could feasibly live.

shelscrape · 28/12/2010 21:36

I'm moving to NZ in 19 days .... eek!!! Having read all this I'm glad I already live a 50 minute drive from any vague nightlife, cinema or restuarant. Hopefully won't be so much of a cluture shock

thelittlestkiwi · 28/12/2010 22:47

I love the Eastern Bays but I think if I had a choice I'd live in Devonport or on the North Shore. Partly cos most of my pals live there. But you also get more house for your money. I like Titirangi but it would be a bit of a commute to the city.

I keep having to remind myself that beach suburbs in Sydney etc wouldn't even be a possibility cos of the house prices.

HavingAMaybe · 29/12/2010 01:29

Littlestkiwi - yes there is a certain level of racism here, again as you go further south people are more conservative.
Having said that, I was talking to an Australian here and he said that he felt that New Zelanders were very community-minded. He was referring to the aftermath of the earthquake in Christchurch, and how most people kept saying how worse off others were than themselves.

I guess it's a trade-off. Small town-type feeling of community spirit with some small-minded people. We're not all racists! And certainly younger generations are more progressive in their thinking.

thelittlestkiwi · 29/12/2010 02:21

Yes, I agree. And the UK was terribly racist until about 10 years ago IMO and E. I think things here change faster. There has been a huge wave of migration from Asia which is really evident in Auckland and which is hard for a country to assimilate. But it will happen. My DD is mixed race and I'm much happier for her be here than some parts of the UK.

But saying that, I had a run in with a pharmacist last week over DD's name and I'm still livid about it. I can't work out if she was being racist or just a cow.

TechnoKitten · 08/01/2011 08:50

Haven't come across racism much here but then I'm living in a fairly small town on South Island and being caucasian I suspect I wouldn't see it.

I so agree with the social circles being small! Everyone knows everyone else (e.g. my first landlord was the stepson of someone I work with, the current landlord has been friends for years with several other people I work with and is related to neighbours on either side, forever coming across people who know either of us or about us via colleagues or kindergarten).

Could never live in Auckland - too big a city and too many people for me! We've got a population of around 50,000 here (seems to double in the summer!). Very windy up on the hills - where we are, DH likes his sea and mountain view! - but more sheltered in the town itself. Lots of children's play areas scattered about, there's one within walking distance of most houses with climbing frames, swings, slides, roktopus (I think they're unique to NZ but I love them! 4 car tyres on long arms in a cross shape, you sit on the tyre bit and it goes round in circles or up and down and round). Our grocery store is open 7am to 10pm which is fine and the town centre itself has more shops than I would ever need :)

Mostly we love it for the scenery and fantastic beaches - think we're very lucky to be able to live where we are.

AngryBeaver · 13/01/2011 22:08

technokitten what's the weather like where you are? we're considering a move to nz but would like a warmer climate..if it's going to be wet and windy (like wellington sounds) we may as well stay here in lancashire!Wink

krisskross · 13/01/2011 22:13

went briefly and thought it lovely- though often heard it described as england in the 50's which seemed apt. before anyone tries to kill me- england in 50s would be heaven for lots of people- so whatever is your cup of tea.

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