Argh! We have been in the US nearly three years now, and yesterday I went to DS's school for a Thanksgiving show, which just make me feel incredibly homesick! And after the show, the parents all went back to the classroom for a "feast" and I felt totally like the only parent with no friends and nothing to say.
DS's teacher told me about a month ago that although he wants to make friends, he isn't really making any close ones, and that I should organise playdates etc for him. Which I have done. So I asked her yesterday if she thought anything had changed and she said "No". The idea that he hasn't got any close friends just makes me so sad. He is quite sensitive, but TBH he does seem fairly happy at school. I think it may be me that needs to toughen up a bit...
Finally, I realised that I can't talk about any of this to my friends at home, because I feel they are drifting away from me and wouldn't be interested.
Sorry for self indulgent rant, I just thought that after three years we would all be settled and have proper friends, not just aquaintances. And I just want to go HOME!!