LOL, visit the new school on line, the schools here are soooooo old fashioned. Can see that happening (sorry I should change my name today to bitter and twisted).
I work in the schools as a teacher, as does my husband. The teachers are often waiting out their pension and are spectacularly rubbish. A large number vary from okay to fantastic but a large portion are rubbish. I live in a very quiet rural so I think this problem is bigger here than in the cities.
Security in terms of work is non existent here. For example its now the 20 August and I still don't know where and if I will have a job next September! This is the same every year. You can't plan anything.
As far as my kids are concerned, I have been saying my son is dyslexic for 2 years and the schools told me very aggressively he wasn't and he was lazy and furbo(sly). I pushed for the school to refer but they refused so I went to my doctor. The tests have come back and he is dyslexic. The teachers has no training in recognising this problem but claims expertise!
My daughter is having terrible trouble with scuola media because we are English (is the long and the short of it). I have been into her school that many times I was to blow the place up! I'm not the only one because I have the same experience of the teachers as do my other English and American friends here. Even the Romans here don't like it and all go back after a very short time.
Perhaps the problem is that we are in a very small rural town and they are generally very closed minded and slow to change.
However, I can rant all day if you want but I will stop, Where are you moving to? I can ask my daughter to give your daughter the low down on living in Italy (the good things).