We're moving to Edinburgh from Jersey this autumn (so technically 'overseas').
We have 2 girls, No1 daughter will be 4 in Nov & No2 is currently 6months. No1 already has a school place but we are umming and ahhing where to live 
We are torn between being 'in town' so that hubby & I have the city on our doorstep (the novelty of having access to this is something you will not understand unless you have lived on a small island like Jersey for a long time!) and I do love the idea of being able to walk everywhere (again a novelty - believe it or not!). Or living further out.....with easy commute for hubby, so East Lothian looks easier as the Borders doesn't have a train line??? or so we believe....
If in town we ideally want a garden flat with private garden/space because we have a labrador too (gluten for punishment!) and access to communal gardens for ease of waking said dog and tiring out children! Out of town, well East Lothian is our oyster but which towns? We' happily put No1 daughter in a local primary (if can get space-is this also a problem up there?)
All pointers and advice gratefully received.... :)
Cheers,
Rachel