Cancer care packages

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A dear friend has a life limiting illness. I don't want to go into too much detail. Medical professionals are treating but this will add a few years not save her life.

Treatment is chemo.

I'd like to put together a care package are you able to give me ideas? I'm so sorry if this is an insensitive question.

I know I have to be careful as some lovely ideas (lip balm etc) might irritate the skin.

I'm already sending little notes and messages as often as I can. Funny ones, positive ones.

We've got a group set up for errands, driving and cooking (all according to guidelines)

Thanks and apologies again if I've asked in the wrong place. I wish you all the very best in your own experiences and those of your family/friends.

Comfy fluffy socks, robe...

Book to read during chemo, or Amazon vouchers if she has a kindle?

A nice thermos flask so she can take her own hot drink while she's getting chemo

A friend of mine sent a great book 'Cleanse to Heal' which had great tips for cleanses, juices, etc to help. Whether that would be a good gift for her only you will know but I'm into that stuff

If you were to send lip balm, hand cream, etc they can be a little difficult to navigate as some people can't stand fragrance of any kind

Does she have family with her? Maybe some letterbox brownies, if she's not up to them then her family can have a little treat.

It's difficult because there is nothing anyone can say or gift that helps a huge amount. But it's nice to know you're thought of

Ask how your friend wants to spend her time and what would bring her enjoyment. Don't assume, don't decide for her, and don't give her gifts indicating you think she's going to be bed bound.

Giving her a sense of control over her own life is one of the most precious gifts you can give someone in her situation. Give her as much of it as you possibly can.