Hello all I am new here.
My ex partner, we split in the summer, together two years. He has been diagnosed with throat cancer. I am attending his hospital appointment with him tomorrow. The diagnosis is very recent. We were friends before we got together and remained friends.
I don't really know what I'm trying to ask advice for. I want to be there for him but I dont want him to feel like I'm there out of pity. I'm not, I do care about him, we just can't be together in a relationship. I said I would go tomorrow as he was going alone. He thanked me. He wanted me to go. This evening I spoke to him and he wants me to go in and listen, take it all in. I will go in, be strong and be there for him. I guess I'm confused how I feel? How am I supposed to feel? I feel really sad for him.
Has anyone been in similar?
Thank you so much for listening ❤️