My Dsisters and I are currently undergoing predictive testing for hereditary non-polyposis colorectal cancer (HNPCC), which the internet tells me "is a type of inherited cancer syndrome associated with a genetic predisposition to different cancer types. This means people with Lynch syndrome have a higher risk of certain types of cancer."
I have found out that my biological parent (whom we have been NC with for most of our lives) carries this altered gene and we now each have 50% chance of having inherited it.
I do not know how to cope with the uncertainty as we wait for our separate results. The combined chances are greater that one, two or all of us will be affected, rather than none.
Although, if needed, screening will be offered for the associated cancers - bowel, womb and ovarian, I don't know how to cope with the lifetime of uncertainty of waiting to find out almost constant results of invasive checks and the knowlegde that the risks are so high of developing cancer at a young age, whether in myself or either of my sisters, which will also affect my parents and half siblings.
I can't even begin to consider options for any of us having children without a 50% chance passing the defect on and inflicting this upon the next generation and my poor DH is obviously also struggling with this on top of the idea of the syndrome affecting me. Counsellors have mentioned PGD and IVF, or foetus testing with a view to aborting if unhealthy, and all I can think of is the emotional stress of this being unsuccessful.
I wonder if anyone who has been in this position has any advice for dealing with the overwhelming sense of helplessness?