Hi there, not sure if you can shed some light for me but i've had pnd and anxiety problems for a while now, over analysing situations or past situations has been a major problem for me. One of these has suddenly sprung up in the past week, i've been thinking about comments passed years ago by a than new university friend and later a work colleague. My friend at the time remarked in conversation that he had thought i was gay, again a few years down the line at work while taking to a work friend who happens to be gay, another colleage asked if i was a lesbian as she was normally good at spotting one!! Can someone please tell me if as a gay person you can spot as this women said a gay person and i'm missing the clues myself? Ive been happily married for some time now and have never really thought about or considered myself attracted to the same sex, other than the times mentioned above when i questioned why they thought this! I'm sorry this has been a long one and i hope not to come across as rude but i'm worried now that other people can see something in me that i can't myself!